I’m in Oregon this weekend with Amy Grant – which sounds like we’re on vacation together or something when, in actuality, I’m just out here speaking on behalf of Compassion at a few of her concerts. (Details here.)
I sat side-stage through her whole set last night, like a wide-eyed kid sitting at the feet of his teacher. For a songwriter there’s no better way to learn than to just listen to great writers. And Mrs. Grant, with 35 years of writing experience and countless hits on her resume, is a great writer. (Do you have her new album?)
The Oregonian sun wasn’t kind to the guitars on that outdoor stage, sending them sliding out of tune for much of the evening. At one point Amy had to do a complete and thorough retuning, bantering casually with the audience throughout. And that’s when the best nugget of wisdom came out, unscripted.
“Do yourself a favor,” she said. “Get very bored and find a way out of it that doesn’t involve being entertained by someone else.”
That’s how she began writing when she was fourteen and, reflecting back on my own high school years, I guess that’s how I got started too. And a lack of boredom is why I don’t get started these days on that blog post, book, new album.
I’m not bored enough to be a writer anymore. Wondering if I can do something about that.
How about you?
Kelli says:
That’s really brilliant. I think we all need to remember what it’s like to be bored from time to time. I’m really bad about allowing my kids to get bored because when they’re bored, I’m usually miserable. So to save myself the hassle, I give them things to do…like watch TV or play the iPad, or sit and play UNO with me and so on. I need to just let them be bored more often so they’ll learn to create.
And maybe I will, too.
I’m a little jealous of your time with Amy Grant this week. She really is amazing! Have fun!!
Kris says:
I love Amy’s advice. And I couldn’t agree more. I think we forget that there is blessing in the stillness of boredom. It reminds me a bit of Thoreau’s quote about not sitting down to write, when we have yet stood up to live… in those pockets of nothing-happening, I sometimes find real inspiration. I don’t know about you, but boredom is a luxury I do not have these days. Boredom requires stillness and stillness means laying aside the work….working on this with you…
Southern Gal says:
I so admire Amy Grant. She is so full of great advice, from this to how to care for aging parents to lyrics that speak to the heart. I would have been starstruck, too.
NancyTyler says:
Creativity in my non-work life feels pretty much non-existent these days, and I feel horrible a good bit of the time because of it. The day job drains my batteries more than it used to and I don’t seem to have the heart or the direction creatively at home anymore. I haven’t figured out yet how to hit the refresh button and get back to who I am. But I’m trying.
I hope boredom works for you! Boredom usually sends me to my couch for a nap. ๐
Amanda says:
I have adored Amy Grant since I was a little girl. I love that advice–and yes, like Kelli, slightly jealous!
Tracee says:
Hmmm. It seems absurd that boredom can happen while in the midst of raising 3 kids, but that is kinda where I’m sitting right now. I call it a restlessness, a stirring. I’m sensing God is about to nudge me pretty hard, but I’m not yet sure what into. My feet are tapping and my pulse is speeding up. I’m just about ready to run. I’m waiting on the assignment.
It is so easy to let the day to day get filled with anything and everything except God’s voice. I think I need to be still, and bored, and quiet and give Him room to speak.
Thanks for the post today.
Jacque Watkins says:
Wow…what a privilege to be on tour with her. I’ve loved her since the beginning…El Shaddai and My Father’s eyes…went to her concerts as a teenager, and seeing her at women of faith two years ago was such a gift. So many unscripted moments with so much transparency, humility, authenticity and wisdom. Thank you for passing on her words and enjoy every minute on tour! May many children find sponsors…and better yet may many people become blessed by the gift of sponsorship…oh how it does as much for our hearts as theirs! Carry on!!
Jill Foley says:
Can’t wait to see you both tonight! It will be my 7th time seeing Amy in concert – and my first time meeting you : )
Melissa Jones says:
The only songs I’ve ever written were when I was basically on house-arrest, with limited access to internet.
I can hardly even type this comment right now because of all the distractions…..
But where I am right now (home with littles) is awesome. I’ve got all of my “empty nest” years to write things. ๐
Vicki says:
Love Amy Grant! Interesting concept; not sure what keeps me from writing. Well, I do know a couple of things, one of which I can do nothing about. Facebook, on the other hand. . . .
Joseph says:
It’s interesting to me that she shared this bit of wisdom while entertaining a group of folks. I say that just to mention that the other side of the coin is to have ears open to good sources of wisdom.
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Brad says:
This is great…and funny. I’ve been telling my family that the temp job I’m currently working (between tours) is the most boring place I’ve ever worked. As a family kind of feel like we’re in a sailboat that has been becalmed at sea. Bored. But in the midst of that I’ve been starting some new songs that are adding significance and depth to what will (hopefully) be our first studio album. So glad to hear Amy’s advice. Nice to think that we’re not stranded, just waiting.
Kevin foley says:
I like your music but I love your mission. You spoke well at the concert last night. The prayer you offered at the end was phrased beautifully. It was neat to meet you. Contact me if I can help in any future projects. Thanks for the annointing you bear.
jennibell says:
That is very interesting. . .I like it. Isn’t it funny how we ache for things now that we tried our hardest to avoid at another time in our lives? Early bedtimes and naps anyone???