Update: Yesterday, my site was hacked, causing all kind of weirdness – no one could order a CD, for instance. Coincidence? Nah. But the ever-brilliant Ben Stewart leapt to action, took the site down for a while, got under the hood and fixed it. All better. Take that, hackers. Thanks for your patience, faithful readers.
We thought we had six months to a year before finally adopting siblings from Ethiopia. But then, last week, our agency called and asked if we could take in a 4 year-old boy from another country in need of immediate placement. We said yes and yesterday we brought him home.
The story of how he came to us is truly remarkable but won’t be told here. We also won’t be posting his picture or his name anywhere either. This is no ordinary adoption.
He’s not officially our son yet. There is much work to be done by many wise and compassionate people on both sides of an ocean.
Here’s what I can tell you. And this is important.
We need your prayers. They work!
We have an amazing little boy in our house, filling it with laughter and new words and lots of legos. But he has given up a great deal to join our family. And from every member of our newly enlarged family, a new level of compassion and patience is now required. There is so much joy in our house today but… The process of grafting our lives together has just begun and will naturally be difficult for him – and all of us – at times. Pray us through please?
Also.
This album we’re releasing August 30th – Third World Symphony – is now more than a regular old album. It is perhaps one of the most elaborate adoption fundraisers ever!
See, because we thought we had another six months to a year of this adoption process, we had budgeted accordingly. And because this child needs stability and routine very much right now, I will likely be canceling appearances for the next couple weeks or more – not ideal financially but the best for him. Now, we don’t know, but it is highly likely that we will need adoption funds much sooner than we’d anticipated – and possibly more than we’d originally thought too.
So, we’re not asking for donations. We’re not having a garage sale. (Yet.) We’re simply asking that you continue to champion this record, Third World Symphony, across the internet and in the real world too. It won’t be in stores. It won’t be on the radio. So, you are our marketing strategy…and now you are our adoption fundraising team. There’s not a better one in the world!
Listen to the album below or at soundcloud.com. And pre-order the CD today at shaungroves.com/store or buy from iTunes starting August 30th, 2011.
As always, we are so thankful as a family for your love, encouragement and prayers. “Thank you” just isn’t enough. But thank you.
-Shaun
(And the rest of the Groves Family)
Amy says:
Wow. When God moves, He doesn’t waste time. Prayers.
Shaun Groves says:
Seriously!
Amy says:
I’m so excited for your family. I’m an adoption fanatic. My best friend does national adoptions for kids from the foster care system. But I think international adoption is great, too, especially when keeping a sibling group intact. Congrats now (for your 4 year-old) and in the future. I’m definitely going to pick up your album…or maybe three or four.
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks, Amy!
Katie Axelson says:
Congratulations! Isn’t it funny how, with God, exciting and terrifying intersect so often?
Katie
Shaun Groves says:
Becky and I have been talking about that a lot. We’re ecstatic that this has all happened the way it has, but I’m not sure I would have signed up for this in the beginning of our adoption journey. The terrifying part would have seemed much larger than the joy part if I were viewing it in advance. But here, in the middle of it all? The joy is so much bigger.
Alicia says:
Wow!!!
Barbara says:
So exciting!
Los says:
Holy crap…
Amazing
K says:
Ditto
Shaun Groves says:
Dude, this isn’t your blog. You can’t secondary cuss up in here ; ) But, yes, crap. And amazing. Miss you, friend.
Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies says:
Tears…. Goosebumps… Wow. So happy for you, that God directed this boy into your home.
I will spread the word about the album and be rooting you on. Praising the Lord for the amazing way He works!!
NancyTyler says:
Just a couple weeks ago you were asking God to make you dependent on Him. Isn’t it cool how He’s doing that? ๐ Praying on–
Heathahlee says:
Wow! Definitely praying!
Amanda says:
We had a plan our adoption would take a long time too, but God does what God does. For us, it was seven weeks from initial application to bringing home baby. So excited for you guys and for all the amazing changes in your lives, both right now and those to come. Praying for all the details to be worked out in a smooth and seamless way, and praying for God to show up financially in a way only He can do.
Shaun Groves says:
Seven weeks! Wow! Glad somebody who’s been where we are is praying on our side. Thanks, Amanda.
Stacy Sublett says:
And just like that–Bam! Praying for you and the fam. I’ve pre-ordered the new project, and will continue to ask the Lord to provide for you and yours…
Shaun Groves says:
Thank you, Stacy.
Charity says:
Wow! I don’t comment often, but I will pray for y’all and this precious boy.
Lindsay says:
I had a feeling this would be the news! Can we give him a nickname, so we can still pray by name? Maybe QB or RB (whichever position he’s more likely to be persuaded into by his new big brother). ๐ Truly thrilled the (newly expanded) Groves family!
Shaun Groves says:
Ha! He’s not into football so far. But give his big brother some time to work on that. So far Gresham does have his new brother wearing a Steelers hat. It’s a start.
Molly Piper says:
Wowie wowzers! Amazing.
Shaun Groves says:
It really is. And you guys don’t even know the half of it! Truly an amazing story.
Alexis says:
Bless you and your family Shaun…from our mouths and hearts to God’s ears, continuing to pray.
Brad says:
So cool Shaun. So, so cool! Blessings on all of you, and we are spreading the word on the album the best we can. So happy for you guys.
Kristen says:
Wow, Shaun! How excited. Will be praying for your family and for a smooth transition.
Charlotte Locke Yoder says:
Thanking Jesus that He brought this precious light into your home. We will continue to pray for you and your sweet family!
Patricia says:
Amazing! You have our prayers, can’t wait to show your blog to Stephen and the girls today.
MainlineMom aka Sarah says:
Shaun, I’ll be sharing this incredible story with my adoption focused Life Group at our weekly meeting tonight. I will encourage everyone to go pre-order the CD, because all of these people have a major heart for adoption and it’s a small way they could help. I cannot begin to tell you how excited I am for you and your family, and we will all pray for you too. Blessings!!
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks, Sarah! That’s huge!
Jenn says:
Oh my WORD, what a story. I am praying over your family for this situation. I am praying that God will use your family in a mighty way to ease whatever heartache this boy may have suffered in his short life, and that he would quickly come to love all of you as his family.
travis cottrell says:
God is never dull. Love it. Praying for you all!
Jake Glover says:
Thank you for sharing your life on these pages. I know what you’re going through – to an extent. We had 24 hours to decide to adopt 3 instead of 2 from Haiti after the earthquake. I felt it was an open invitation from God, not a command, a suggestion/ a request. We said yes. I’m so glad we did. I will be praying.
Shaun Groves says:
Wow. That’s intense, Jake. Your lack of regret is extremely encouraging. Thanks for that.
Christine says:
Such a wonderful post! Definitely praying for you all…and heading off to pre-order my CD now! Blessings on the entire Groves family!
Makenzie says:
Hi Shaun!! We were in the homestudy parents in process class together!!! This is such great news to hear! It is so amazing how God works to bring about His will, no matter what our plans may be. Congratulations on your precious little boy!!
Shaun Groves says:
GREAT TO HEAR FROM YOU! Where are you in the process now?
Kelli says:
I am thrilled to hear this. Adoption is so near and dear to my heart and everytime I hear of a child’s life being changed in such a way a huge lump forms in my throat and my eyes start to burn. My cousin and her husband are in Ethiopia right now meeting their two little boys, ages 4 and 6. It, too, was a last minute change of plans and an unexpected intervention by the Lord Himself. I love it! (I just pumped my fist in the air…in the car with my realtor. She thinks I’m crazy…)
I am praying for your family and this precious little boy! Thanks for sharing!
Sara @ Happy Brown House says:
Um…wow. Not what I expected to read when I opened up my Google Reader today. SO excited for your family! Praying for you all as you transition!
Shaun Groves says:
We caught up to you in a hurry huh? ; ) Hoping to see you in person soon!
Kris says:
Wooohoo. God is amazing, isn’t he? My post, with your three questions goes live tomorrow, Tuesday July 12, and I will be praying that it sparks some sales, and that God uses it to bless your family, as you bless us all through your music. Thrilled for you, prayers going up on your behalf! Bless you!
JD says:
What a beautiful blessing, Shaun… congrats to your entire family. God certainly moved mountains for this sweet boy, He has a great plan for your family.
We will continue to pray for His provisions.
Our adoption case workers are presenting us our potential match on Friday morning. Please be in prayer for my husband’s heart to be open to whatever God has planned, and for it to be clear if this isn’t the one He chose for us, although I believe she’s the one!
Thomas says:
Congratulations. Praying for you all.
Shaun Groves says:
Thank you, Thomas. Still praying for you too.
Shannon says:
Wow. Prayers headed your way! Grace and peace to this little boy and the rest of your family.
Christine says:
Congratulations! Praying for all the needs and rejoicing with you!
Jenna B. says:
Amazing! I love it. I’ll be praying, and talking up the album. Thanks for the update.
meghan @ spicy magnolia says:
I echo everyone’s ‘wow’s!! What an incredible story your family has with bringing home this precious boy. May the Lord, in His goodness and beauty, graft your family together with a strong and joyous bond. What a gift!
Marla Taviano says:
God is so awesome. He’s going to provide for y’all in HUGE ways. You just watch.
Liz says:
So exciting!!! I posted this on twitter & hopefully you will have lots of purchases from that! ๐ God bless!
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks, Liz!
beth says:
Hi Shaun…
I just think it’s interesting that the last time I checked your blog, you were looking for dates to fill up your August calendar. Now I wonder if that empty August calendar was a blessing to be full of wonderful, toddler bonding time! Amazing!
JD in Canada says:
Beth,
Good observation — hmmm! Amazing how God works out all the details — I wonder how much of His details we miss out on when we’re not watching!
Shaun Groves says:
SO true. One of many “coincidences” throughout this story.
Melissa Jones says:
Thinking the same thing! And REALLY glad now that it _didn’t_ work out for our church to bring you back for a visit (but be on the look-out for an invite in 2012!)
Looking forward to “meeting” this little man whenever the time comes! Thanks for letting us come along for the ride!
Angie says:
Wow, that IS big news! Congratulations!! We’ll be praying!!
RaD says:
Wow! Very big news. And can I just say that I knew your very unknow news had something to do with adoption. Don’t know how, but just did. Will definately be praying!
debra parker says:
praying. we totally understand bringing children home on different circumstances. we are hoping to finalize the adoption of our son very soon.
will be praying for your family, for sure.
Megan at SortaCrunchy says:
Wow. WOW. Sometimes it seems that God is tarrying too long with our dreams and plans, and sometimes it’s just HAPPENING NOW and you it’s like a whirlwind and you are doing all you can to hang on and pray.
I’m praying over all of you as you move into this transition. May the peace of Christ be tangible in your home and in your hearts.
beth says:
praying – the album is amazing!
Jill Foley says:
I’ll continue to pray for you all….thanks for letting us see God at work in your (expanding) family
Megan @ Faith Like Mustard says:
What wonderful news! Prayers for your whirlwind life!
Judy says:
Amazing! Congratulations! And we’re praying!!!
Tara Livesay says:
Praying for you guys!!! Bondye Bon. (God is good – and also – unpredictable) ๐
Deanne MacBurnie says:
Congratulations to you and your family, will be praying for you all ^_^ I will also promote your new album in our emag Tell it on the Mountain http://issuu.com/tellitonthemountain The next issue should be out within the next couple of weeks. Precious Blessings!
Shaun Groves says:
The littlest Groves slept well last night. An answer to prayer for sure. THANK YOU for praying!
Ann Voskamp says:
“The littlest Groves….”
๐
Jennifer says:
That great Shaun! A good night sleep can change everything. The prayers won’t stop!
Donna Cruz says:
Shaun, I’m really happy for you and the fam! Buying your record today!!!
Donna
misty says:
Congrats! So exciting.
Praying for all of you guys and will definately be promoting your album!!
Alastair Vance says:
Amazing news! I pray all the details are worked out. Blessings to you and your family.
Michael Patterson says:
Great news! Your comment “he has given up a great deal to join our family” is so true of every adopted child. Our daughter experienced more loss in her first 2 years than I have experienced in 48. Your family will certainly be in our prayers. Congratulations!
Shaun Groves says:
I know you know what this is like. Thankful to have your prayers. Thanks, Michael.
Dionna says:
Congratulations, Shaun! God often spins our head when He’s at work, doesn’t He? I pray this little boy adjusts quickly and that all the knots that need to be untied just unravel quickly as this process proceeds.
Maybe someday, we will get to see this precious young man.
JessicaB says:
Wow.
I mean, is there another word it? Sounds like you guys have been crazy blessed.
Christine says:
I’ve thought about this a lot since reading yesterday. I know you aren’t asking for donations, but I have a thought to share on that.
Of course, we’ve all seen donate buttons on blogs for reasons that make our eyes roll–for reasons that don’t involve God’s work.
But this is different.
We are a low-income family of six and feeding our own often happens on a wing and prayer, given the weak economy. It’s frustrating that prayer (and maybe blogging) can be my only response to the global orphan crisis. I know every adoption is as messy as it is beautiful, and prayer is much needed as host families strive to live out the Gospel on a daily basis in their homes. So I pray.
But I wish I could do more.
It’s wrong for me to question the Architect and feel discouraged–I would rather Christians with some means, or those with a platform to raise money, would put donate buttons so I can give….be it$15 or $20 or whatever. Many low-income Christians really want to do something tangible to help at least one child get rescued. If every family able to adopt would be willing to accept donations without shame, the Body of Christ could do so much more……with the haves and the have-nots working as a team.
Yes, we can buy the album for $10.00, but what if we could give $15 and listen to the album online, instead? See what I’m saying?
Don’t be ashamed to ask for donations! This is God’s work you are doing…..it’s not for your glory, but for His!
Shaun Groves says:
I so appreciate your willingness to share, Christine. Our reason for not asking for help isn’t shame though. We realize there are so many great needs in the world. Not sure ours even ranks today. But I’ll keep you all posted. If our need becomes pressing and threatens in any way this little boy in our home, I will certainly shamelessly ask for help – of our family and church first, but also of you all.
Thankful for such compassionate readers, Christine. Thank you.
Sherron says:
Congratulations!! This is such exciting news, Shaun! I will definitely be praying for you and your entire family, especially your new little one.
Christine says:
Okay, that last sentence will be misunderstood. I don’t mean to insinuate that you’re doing it for your glory. I meant that I know you aren’t doing it for yours…but for His.
Shaun Groves says:
Understood. Thanks for clarifying though.
Kris says:
Prayers and love for the newly expanded Groves family!
Beth says:
Well now, it’s a double bonus- supporting your album which supports international Compassion work AND supporting the heart of Jesus for adoption. Thanks, Shawn. it’s a blessing to buy your album and sow into the heart of God through your life and family. I am continually challenged, inspired, and blessed by your words, so how blessed are we that we can now give back to you in this way. Buying an album and praying for your family as you adapt with this new precious life in your house. And praying for the little guy’s assimilation as well. Much grace to you and your family!
Shaun Groves says:
Thank you, Beth!
Sarah Markley says:
Amazing Shaun. Praying for your family today.=)
marc barber says:
What an awesome story! We are heart4adoption ministries and our mission is to see the over 500,000 foster children in our country adopted into Christian homes. We would love permission to post a link to your blog on our website (www.heart4adoption.us) so more people can read about the amazing work of our Lord in your famlies life. Please email me ([email protected]) and let us know if that is ok. We are praying for you and all that you must do to make this adoption final.
God Bless,
Marc Barber
Sheree G. says:
Praying for you and your family, from down here in East Texas, better known as Chris Tomlin country, lol; aren’t you from Tyler?? But I just gotta say, 4 is my fav age. What a blessing for your son to be 4!!!!
Karen says:
We are SO happy for your family! Praying for everyone’s adjustment! (Sorry we will miss getting to meet you on the 19th!)
Doug Riggle says:
๐ I’m reading through this while in central Iowa visiting my biological family (well, part of them anyway) I’m such a huge fan of adoption and work with Churches to establish orphan ministries (as part of our work with Orphan World Relief). Adoption has been a part of my life from the beginning to this very day… there’s nothing like being a parent to help you relate to our own daddy in heaven!
My prayer for you and your family is that the Body of Christ steps up in some miraculous ways to make a difference… I know I’ll be promoting your CD anyway I can. Already I’m getting Christmas shopping started so that I can buy things that make a difference. Your CD will help! In His abundance of Grace! Doug
Annie L says:
Praying that God provides all that you need and more!! I’ll also be praying for the transition, as awesome as it is, I am sure it is hard too.
jen says:
So, so, so exciting to see how God works and blesses! Thanks for sharing what you can!
Janera says:
Your story, even the small portion that can be told, blesses my heart, especially since my family is also in process of an international adoption that is mixed, baked, and frosted with “coincidences” as well. Like you, we are willing to humble ourselves as necessary to come up with the funds to bring our boy out of his orphanage permanently and into our home. I’ll pray you won’t have to ask for donations or have a garage sale, but if you do, so be it. In our case, we’ve worked extra jobs, sold furniture, had a garage sale, and worked several fundraisers. So far, we’ve had the money we’ve needed for every step of the process. However, we’re now ready to begin our dossier work, and the funds are not there. Still, we live in a peace that can only come from a God who has promised to see His plan through to the end — and He’s proven it time and again. It will happen, because He said it would. God bless your family!
Christine says:
Many congratulations to you and your family Shaun, and praying for blessings for this little guy as he settles into a new home and gets to know your loving hearts. Praying for whatever situation he has left behind too that broken lives there will be given healing.
Mari Marks says:
This is so random, or divine, but I know Marla Taviano. Marla blogged and/or knows you. I was just looking for the perfect song to put with a post to my recent missions trip to El Salvador, and to use as an anthem for a new adoption advocacy branch of our missions department at church (particularly Ethiopia)… then I stumbled upon your blog and oh so intriguing story of “S.” I’ll be praying hard for your family and passing the word on your fantastic CD!
Katie Dunlap says:
Ah, the wonderful Ben Stewart – man of many talents :). I’m praying for this precious boy, your family & the people on both sides of the ocean making decisions. God never fails to write us into incredible stories when we’re willing to follow Him! May He bless you with all you need for this part of the journey.
Jason Rust says:
God is Awesome.
We waited for a year for siblings (0-7) from Ethiopia. The agency said they weren’t sure why, but there wasn’t an end in sight. We opened up to whatever and had a referral a week later. I had some personal pride mixed in with this…(i didn’t want to be looked at as the guy that just wanted the “easy” baby)…not sure if that makes sense or not.
Anyways, the referral of only one child has opened the door to another in a different country, resulting in Siblings, just not the way we had planned….
Happy for you. Happy that a kid has a dad. There’s a need for more men that want to emulate our Father who is a Father to the fatherless.
jenn nahrstadt says:
just had a conversation about this topic with my husband last night, then spent the last hour listening to this album. pre-ordered it and can’t wait to own it.
marvelous work for a fantastic cause. isn’t it great what God chooses to do when we’re available? blessings on you and the family.
Leeann says:
I love the album, tried to preorder it, but the site wouldn’t take my credit card. It kept saying that I’d entered incorrect information, which was not actually the case. I tried a few times.
Shaun Groves says:
Sorry about that, Leann. Thanks for trying.
We switched from Paypal to Google Checkout because Paypal was giving me grief. Out of the frying pan and into the fire perhaps?
I haven’t heard of this error from anyone else though. And several people have successfully ordered the disc. Hmmm.
Maybe try another card if you’ve got one? Or wait until August 30 and download from iTunes!
Leeann says:
I will definitely download from iTunes on August 31st. I just wanted to preorder if I could. Any chance it’ll be available on Amazon’s digital store as well? I love iTunes as a player, but their store and I don’t always get along. I’ll make the sacrifice if I have to though.:)
Shaun Groves says:
Yes, it will be available at virtually every on-line download store including Amazon. THANK YOU!
Shannon says:
Amazing news, Shaun! So happy for him, and for your whole family. God is at work!
Kristi says:
Shaun, I am moved to share this with many. I pray that God moves mountains and continues to bless your family as you are a blessing to many, namely that precious little boy. Congratulations!
Alli Dahlgren says:
Just saw this. Kirk and I will be praying for your family! Let us know if there is anything we can do to serve you guys in this season!
Beck Gambill says:
God draws near to the humble and I pray you feel his presence wrapped around your home and your hearts! I’m sending out the message right now!