He draped a canopy of tulle over their kitchen table. Bows tied around each chair. Tea cups and saucers, ringed napkins, flowers on a great-grandmother’s tablecloth.
Guests arrived in tiaras, high heels, frilly dresses and flavored lipgloss. The old man in the suit answered the door and escorted them in. With a big sister’s help, the guests gathered around the art table to hot-glue silk flowers to purple and pink hats while the man in the suit took pictures for the society page.
After toiling over their fashions the debutants took a break for tea.
There was some small talk about school and dolls and Justin Bieber and the proper way to drink tea. With pinky out.
Which turned out to be harder to do than anyone had expected.
And then cupcakes. Pink with “sugar balls” – which the old man suggested would be a good nickname for his wife to call him from time to time. And the old man’s wife said…well, that’s a post for another time I suppose.
Turns out a party of proper ladies is very quiet until the sugar hits the bloodstream. Then it’s all whispers and giggles.
And laughing.
And blindfolded frog kissing.
When the party was over and all the sugar and spice and everything nice went home, the old man put on a t-shirt, grabbed a lawn chair and watched football.
His boy ran faster than he could ever remember running as a kid.
Never tired. Never slowing down.
And the old man’s wife said something about how fast time runs too, how quickly little girls become ladies and little boys become young men. The old man felt a little older than when he woke up that morning. A little more grateful and alive too.
JessicaB says:
Sugar balls.
Oh no you just di’int.
Shaun Groves says:
Oh yes I done did.
Katie says:
Awe! What a fun Saturday for an old man… I mean, a dad.
Katie
kiriseth says:
Love love LOVE the photos of the girls. You perfectly captured their personalities! I think my favorite has to be of the little girl with the nail polish whispering secrets to her friend – who just happens to have cupcake icing still on the corner of her mouth. These are just gorgeous, Shaun!
Shaun Groves says:
That’s my niece, Sosy with the frosting mouth. I don’t think she’s ever taken a bad picture.
Pooka says:
What a wonderful party! Thanks for sharing the great pictures.
Krissy says:
Love, love, love the tea party! Great pictures!
Sarah M says:
Something tells me that a few little girls will forever remember their generous escort and a fancy tea party for many years to come – not just because of the pictures!
Shaun Groves says:
Because of the cupcakes right?
That much frosting is bound to make a lasting impression. When they’re being rolled in for heart surgery in their forties they’ll remember us alright. “Curse you, purveyor of cupcakes!”
Brad says:
Love the pics. Awesome!
Ann Welton says:
So thoroughly enjoyed these pictures and every comment. My seventeen year old granddaughter still remembers the tea parties we had every afternoon when I picked her up from preschool, elementary, & middle school. Many times with friends. Always on China cups, with the works. I also remember with a great deal of pleasure; and am doing the same for my “going on three” new granddaughter. Life is good when you are making memories!
Susan says:
How lovely… and awesome!
Benjamin Johnson says:
Seriously Shaun… what kind of camera do you have? How long did it take you to learn to use it like that?
Shaun Groves says:
It’s a Nikon D-7000. It’s all camera, Benjamin. I don’t have a clue what I’m doing.
Amy says:
Sugar balls! Bwahahaha! Oh my! Lol
Your girl is gorgeous! Your boys are fast. You are a good dad! ๐
Keturah says:
What sweet memories for all of you!
Love, love, love the picture of the sweet girl trying to hold out her pinky…wonder what those hands will do over a lifetime?
Thanks for sharing your Saturday!
Ruth says:
I LOVE these tea party pictures! I can’t wait for my own little lady to be big enough to have one. It is so great that you participated. What fun memories.
Beth says:
Priceless.
Liz Reeves says:
Sugarballs! ROFL!!!!!!!! Love it!
But in all seriousness, those pictures were precious!!! I love the pinky-out tea drinkers!
Kelli says:
Ahem…sugarballs? You and my husband share a frighteningly similar wit. You would be a dangerous pair. (It’s also, incidentally, why I’m rather glad he doesn’t have a blog.)
Great party! Giggly little girls and sweaty little boys- that is the makeup of a very sweet weekend. Awesome pics!
Sharon O says:
What an awesome post. A great father. Good memories. Good job.
Gigi says:
Love, love, love this post!!! Little girls and tea parties are just meant to be! And their hats are divinely spectacular!!
Megan @ Faith Like Mustard says:
We’ve had some mighty fine tea parties in our day. I’m a sad that we are nearing the end of our tea party days. ๐
Tell the old man I know exactly how he feels.