He balled up his fist like a gavel and pounded on the old wooden pulpit like an almighty judge. He listed the depravities of popular culture and swore they were signs of Christ’s imminent return. This is the narcissism I grew up in.
MATTHEW 13:24-30 Jesus told them another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field. 25 But while everyone was sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away. 26 When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, then the weeds also appeared. 27 “The owner’s servants came to him and said, ‘Sir, didn’t you sow good seed in your field? Where then did the weeds come from?’ 28 “‘An enemy did this,’ he replied. “The servants asked him, ‘Do you want us to go and pull them up?’ 29 “‘No,’ he answered, ‘because while you are pulling the weeds, you may uproot the wheat with them. 30 Let both grow together until the harvest. At that time I will tell the harvesters: First collect the weeds and tie them in bundles to be burned; then gather the wheat and bring it into my barn.’”
Bemoan the downward spiral of TV programming and what we’re really saying is that TV shows have degraded morally in this country since I was a kid. Lament the divorce rate as evidence of the world’s decay and what we’re really saying is more people are divorcing in America today than they did when we were growing up. By “the world” we mean where we live, during our lifetime. This is narcissism.
But America is not the world. And my lifetime is merely a blip in history.
Perspective may be the greatest benefit of reading beyond our place and time. Take the bible, for instance.
Cain killed his brother out of jealousy. Noah was the only righteous man left on a flooded planet. Abraham lied his wife into another man’s harem. Tamar pretended to be a prostitute so she could have sex with her father-in-law and give birth to his child. And we’re not even out of Genesis yet!
I never thought all those music history classes in college would come in handy, but what do you know? Sex was part of popular music long before Elvis shook his pelvis. Wealthy nobles in Italy and France commissioned composers to write ditties about raping peasant women. There were songs about masturbation, beastiality and incest…all long before America was even a dream.
And what about murder? 16 million African slaves killed in the Atlantic slave trade before 1807, 20 million killed by Stalin before 1953, 20 million killed in the Taiping Rebellion in China before 1864, 25 million killed in the fall of the Ming Dynasty before 1662, 40 million killed by Genghis Khan before 1227, 65 million killed in the Second World War…lives have been taken by the millions for centuries and all over the globe.
The weeds have been around a long time – blooming first in the Garden from the seed of our disobedience. They migrate here and there, come and go from this place and that, but their overall global influence isn’t provably greater now than at any other time in history.
And the wheat?
Korea is proof that wheat still reaches upward despite the weeds. Compassion International invented child sponsorship there – beginning with a handful of orphaned boys and girls in 1951. But today South Korea is not a sponsored country in Compassion’s program. It is a sponsoring country. The wheat has grown strong there. The weeds have retreated and established themselves elsewhere…like in Nicaragua, where I spent last week – now the second poorest country in the Western hemisphere behind Haiti.
But who knows, if we keep watering, what God will grow there someday?
To say the world is getting worse is to think narcissistically, to reason as if ignorant of history, and to doubt the promise of God.
The wheat will not be overpowered. It will grow. And so will the weeds. Until the end.
Until then, don’t despair. And keep watering!
Adam Shields says:
The best book I have read on how the world is actually getting better (in most but not all ways) is called Upside: Surprising Good News About the State of Our World by Bradley Wright. Wright is a Christian and statistician. Filled with lots of good facts and a Christian background he balances out the overly pessimistic (the world is going to downhill). He also agrees that not everything is better.
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks for the book tip, Adam. Linked to it in my post.
Becky says:
I think about this a lot … how we read about all this stuff in the Bible but somehow it’s not as shocking or bad as if it happened today. I mean, Herod? Killing all the boys under 2? Imagine in Obama did something like that.
And I liked the perspective of what Compassion’s doing. This is a great post, Shaun.
Shaun Groves says:
Wow. That means a lot coming from you, Becky. (Becky is a ninja in Compassion’s headquarters.)
How’s your house? Did your neighborhood escape the fires?
Becky says:
Thanks Shaun. The fire came within about 8 miles of us, but we’re in suburbia so not many trees to burn where we live. It’s unbelievable how many people lost everything, though.
boomama says:
Great perspective, my friend. 🙂
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks for the encouragement, Sophie. My copy of your book hasn’t arrived yet but when it does…Can’t wait to read! After I put a brown bag cover over that flowery one it comes with ; )
Molly says:
AP read a book by Steven Pinker called “The Better Angels of Our Nature” about the historical decrease in violence. I haven’t read it, but he thought it was pretty interesting. You might be interested.
Shaun Groves says:
Anytime AP or you recommend a book, I’m in! Ordering now. Good to see your face in that little square here, Molly. It’s been too long.
Sarah says:
Agreed. Mere, dearly loved blips.
Kris says:
As I told you, I am reading through the bible in chronological order and by the time I finished Genesis, I was really stunned. It’s not the first time I’ve read the book, but the stories of Tamar and Cain and Abel–all of the violence and rape and whatnot, it just stunned me. All this, to say that I appreciate your perspective here, because I have thought about how messed up it all is–but then the Word reminds me that since Adam and Eve, it’s been this way. It’s not new. And we should not give up either.
Angela says:
I agree w/your article!! “The wheat will not be overpowered. It will grow. And so will the weeds. Until the end.” AMEN!!
Aaron says:
Love this post.
People are always longing for “the good ol’ days” and it cracks me up because they’re usually referring to somewhere around the 1950s, when “all was right with the world”… ahem.
Riiiight.
When women had no rights, African-Americans weren’t allowed to even use the same bathrooms as white people and we had JUST gone through the HOLOCAUST! The good ol’ days?! Pssh.
Love how you tied this in with the amazing work of Compassion. Thanks for all you’ve done to spread the word about such a great organization. If only we could all remember the REAL HOPE we have in the good news of the gospel, we could find peace in promises of God, look forward to the future and do our part to bring more of the kingdom to earth – like by sponsoring children through Compassion International. 😉
Angie Wilkinson says:
Great perspective -thanks for writing!
Heather says:
good stuff. both the look back at history of the world and the hope of service growing out of a country that used to receive (makes me think of the “Back to Jerusalem” movement…Chinese sending missionaries to Arab nations…cool stuff). Also gained hope for the world we live when I heard Bono’s poverty report (TED talk)…an encouraging word on Africa (rare to hear).
Brian says:
Good word. It’s so easy to focus on the bad (television/news doesn’t help), and overlook the good. Even in Genesis, while the evil deeds do stick out to us, one of the over arching themes is patience. Abraham spent many years with a name that means “Big Daddy” despite having no children, and Jacob’s life is all about the rewards of faithful perseverance even though “few and evil had been the days of his life…” (Gen. 37). The list continues: Noah, Joseph, and, yes, even Tamar – who actually did not sin in her action (we’re told she was righteous), but was a victim of Judah’s wickedness – yet persevered for many years before taking matters into her own hand (and, incidentally, preserving the covenant… she’s in the genealogy of Jesus). Also, while the bigger point remains (regarding the evil throughout Genesis), the bible never condemns Abraham for his deceiving of Pharaoh (Pharaoh/Abimelech is actually the one warned) and is blessed for his efforts. The righteous deception of the enemy by the righteous is also another prevalent theme throughout Genesis. Blessings!
marie keller says:
Good article but I take issue somewhat with the comments about Tamar. Judah was wrong when he went back on his promise to her by not providing her with a husband (one of his other sons) and thereby providing a way for her to have a legitimate child. And having a son was everything back then! So since he broke his word AND had sex with his daughter-in-law, Tamar was not the only one involved in both a sex scandal and deceit! I I know what she did was ludicrous but Judah had no excuse either. (The good news of course is that our redeeming God found a place for them in the lineage of his son. Amazing.)
Shaun Groves says:
So how would you summarize that entire chapter of the Bible in one sentence? ; )
Doing the best I can, Marie. Thanks for reading.
Crystal says:
Love this message Shuan – when we change our perspective we find there is still hope. There are still reasons to keep watering, to keep doing what God has called us to do, to raise the next generation of wheat.
Liz Gray says:
I love, love, love this article and am proud to be a Compassion sponsor since 2003. What an amazing organization. I love this sentence:
To say the world is getting worse is to think narcissistically, to reason as if ignorant of history, and to doubt the promise of God.
May your ministry be blessed a thousand fold and more!
Douglas says:
Over 150 million girls are missing largely due to sex-selective abortion and but also infanticide. Even in the US, if the oldest two children are girls, some demographic groups have a 1.5 to 1 ratio of boys to girls for the third born. We Americans have killed over 50 million of our offspring since in the last 40 years.
Is the world getting worse? Well, we haven’t had any world wars involving major powers (and thus the large casualty counts) since the advent of the nuclear bomb. Yet, governments have still killed off hundreds of millions of their own people. A peace kept by largely nuclear weapons is not the kind of peace that breeds confidence in my mind.
I don’t know the answer to how the world is relative to the past. Certainly, in some areas like child abuse, the first world is much better off than it used to be (or at least things are out in the open more and people are punished for what used to be covered up), but I’m skeptical when people say things are really better than they used to be. It just depends on what one is looking at. Movements like child sponsorship, which Compassion is largely responsible for have resulted in huge improvements in the lives of individuals. I worry, though, that the first world has been living on their grandchildren’s nickel. When the flow of cheap money to borrow runs dry, then what? Wealthy people are generally more discrete about their murder than poor people are. We are still a fallen race, though.
References:
http://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2012/05/sex-selection-in-america-why-it-persists-and-how-we-can-change-it/257864/
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/27/opinion/27douthat.html?_r=0