I’m writing this for inclusion in Shannon’s Works For Me Wednesday carnival. (ManCode Violation #1: Participation in a themed mom blog event.)
Becky keeps a sinister folder. It’s labeled “Party Ideas” but inside is nothing but evil clipped from magazines and printed from web sites. For me.
Three times a year she opens her little folder, usually the night before the big day, and says something like ”This one! This is the cake I want for Penelope’s party. It’s a carousel! Made out of licorice and animal crackers. It’s Martha Stewart. I saw it and I thought ‘Shaun could totally do that!’” Then I, only because I can draw and stuff, stay up late, get up early and make the danged carousel out of licorice and animal crackers for my little princess’ birthday party. (Violation #2: Baking and frosting. Violation#3: Admitting publicly that there’s been some baking and frosting.)
That was last year. Penelope was turning two. In those days she was finger painting with poop and calling her brother “Daddy” and, let’s face it, she wasn’t all that sharp and definitely didn’t know a carousel from a swing set and couldn’t remember what she’d eaten a mere five minutes after it was smeared on her face. So, yea, that was culinary skill well spent.
Well, this year, last Friday, Becky graciously gave me twelve daytime hours to bring her magazine clipping to life: A sunflower cake made out of…wait for it…Starbursts. (Somebody smack Martha Stewart real hard with somethin’ heavy for me will ya?)
Here it is:
Now, Martha must’ve skipped English the day they taught how to write a process paper because this sucker had a “how to” only three steps long – three not-so-detailed steps. So allow me now teach you what Martha left out: How to make stuff out of Starbursts.
STEP ONE: Unwrap one Starburst and place it between two sheets of wax paper. Only one Starburst.
STEP TWO: Put your wax paper and Starburst sammich in the microwave oven and zap it for four seconds. Less and it won’t soften. More and it’s molten lava.
STEP THREE: Remove your softened Starburst sammich from the microwave and squish that Starburst between the two sheets of wax paper using lots of manly pressure from a finger or thumb pre-calloused by fifteen years of guitar playing. Don’t have a calloused finger or thumb? You’re screwed. That Starburst is a tad warm.
STEP FOUR: Peel off the wax paper BEFORE the Starburst assumes room temperature. If you’re not fast enough it’ll stick to the paper.
STEP FIVE: Cut the flattened Starburst into desired shape (in this case, flower petals) using scissors.
That’s it. That’s how you make stuff out of Starbursts like a manly man! Like maybe MacGyver even. Take that Martha!
I hope the men out there still accept me as one of their kind. If not, I’ll be blogging under the name “Three Baby Bears” starting tomorrow.
LeeAnn (AKA FrazzMom) says:
Lovely- you did Martha proud!!! One question- what is the center of the flowers made of? Inquiring minds want to know!!!
Oh and keep your wife away from Family Fun Magazine or their website- TONS of themed cake ideas there!
Amy says:
Love it. Lucky girls you have there.
Amanda says:
It’s certain you’ll lose your man card now, but seriously, if you’re making those cakes, you deserve some sort of congressional (or at least a culinary) award. Male or female, it takes a brave individual to replicate anything Martha, and the fact that you’re making it for someone younger than thirty makes it that much more special.
Here’s what Works for Me in the way of cake-making: paying somebody.
Love your blog!
Amanda says:
Also, have you thought of mixing up the Martha and making the petals out of fondant? You can buy fondant in premixed colors (which would be nice if your party is of a more pastel scheme), and it won’t scald your prints off like hot Starburst.
Travis Cottrell says:
Woah.
Ally says:
Okay, so I have two things my Father EVER bought me. And one of those was a week AFTER my eighteenth birthday because he forgot when it was.
So, can I just tell you – you are a manly man for loving your children and your wife enough to do such insane but sweet things for them.
I for one, admire you.
And speaking as an adult daughter – I’m pretty sure that you will be one very treasured father. A tiny glimpse of the care and compassion our Daddy God has for us.
Nancy Tyler says:
Awwww, see and you thought YOU were the delegator.
Well, don’t worry–I have good news! This little work of art qualifies you to receive a coveted invitation to my annual “Girls-Only Martha Stewart Does Not Live Here Holiday Prep Party.” We bring our holiday crafts and cards and scrapbooks to work on and we snack on tasty Martha-inspired treats. It’s a good thing. See ya first Sunday in December!
Heather Lessiter says:
Thank you for the entertainment and tip! I will actually use this one and you do describe it much better than Martha!
Seaton says:
Time to man-up and dispel some myths.
I’m a stay-at-home Dad who does all the cooking/baking at our house (which is in the same State as Shaun’s house, by the way).
I’m also a 6’2”, 240lbs. dad who hunts and fishes, likes sports, spits, scratches and does most every other man thing.
I also play guitar, enjoy reading, music and poetry.
I prefer to refer to us men who do more than the male caricature as Renaissance Men.
I don’t like to fold clothes though, so Judges, take the appropriate deduction from my technical score.
I also just noticed my little captcha thingy at the bottom is “woman93” So maybe someone’s trying to tell me something…oh heck, just disregard the whole comment. I need a bubble-bath.
Connor says:
you big woman… lol
DrewbieTech says:
Um, I love to bake, so…
A Question: How come being creative is grounds for revoking the man card? I’ve never really understood that.
Shaun, you did a great job on the cake.
Toby says:
I would say you punched your man card, not lost it. Real men do stuff for their kids to make them smile.
Megan says:
Okay, so yes – I totally roll my eyes in the general direction of men who participate in WFMW. But you totally saved this with your admission title. It was actually the title that made me go ahead and read it. Wow, amazing cake. One of our guy friends always makes the cakes for his kids too and they are pretty fun. Not nearly as fun as this one, mind you, but impressive just the same.
Nicely done. Now then, can I show you what I’d like done for my four girls this next year?
Kenyon says:
Sean…in the future you should make two cakes; one for the party and one for you and redneck neighbor to go out and shoot it full of lead. Now that’s my idea of culinary fun!
Dave Haupert says:
It’s all worth it because now you get to say (or sing), “A burst of refreshing fruit flavor for you” to your daughter. That ranks right up there with the privilege of saying “if your friends are all jumping off the Brooklyn Bridge, would you as well”.
These are just a few of the unadvertised benefits of being a Dad!
Jenny says:
Martha drives me batty. Absolutely crazy. And this was a great way to start my day! You’re still a card carrying member in my opinion!
Tamara Cosby says:
I am so cracking up right now but am THOROUGHLY impressed and will be sharing this post with my husband when he gets home from work. AWESOME!
Travis Thompson says:
Thanks a lot Shaun.
Maybe you could start doing “Recipe Wednesdays” or something?
Man card revoked (don’t worry, I lost mine a long time ago)!
Shawn says:
I had to stop reading when you got to the steps as I felt my testosterone levels drop dangerously low. I was compelled to go by the first 3 seasons of Gilmore Girls on DVD at that point and knew I had to step away.
Thomas says:
A true man would have used a a mallet and pounded those Starburst flat. If heat was needed, you pull out the torch and heat them up.
All joking aside, you showed all of us manly men what it means to be a true man by making a cake for your daughter.
Thomas
Shaun Groves says:
The middle is chocolate sprinkles.
I’m gonna go put on a dress and get my day started now.
Kaye says:
This post is awesome. The cake looks awesome, buy the way, and I’m impressed that you (man or sissy-boy =) ) pulled it off so well. I certainly could not have. I am certainly going to have to tune into your blog more often, as I found it quite hysterical.
alan says:
I think the “man card” is in tact because of the reason this was done. It’s worth it when it comes to doing something for the kids, which inevitably should lead to scoring points with the Mrs. Not that I’m saying is why you did this.
If you’d have done this on your own and out of the blue, well, the “man card” could have taken a hit.
It looks great.
Becky says:
This post cracked me up! You’re a funny guy Shaun. Thanks.
Amy says:
That is so cute!!!
john in colorado says:
seems like you’d fit right in on twitter.
andira says:
I totally want to melt starbursts and mush them between wax paper now. alas, I do not have calloused hands.
Impressive cake making skills!
thecachinnator says:
Yep. Fork it over…
thecachinnator says:
Of course, I made a living in musical theatre… so…
Take it with a grain of salt… or at least with salt around the rim…
anon4him says:
Your skills are incredible! I don’t care how un-manly they make you; they certainly make you fatherly ^_^
Brian Seay says:
Surprising, all the women think you get to keep the card! I shot a gun once in Oregon.
Cynthia says:
Wow….there must be something to that bridging both halves of your brain study.
Nichole says:
That’s a gorgeous cake, Baby Bear. Nice work!
Shaun Groves says:
I’m Pappa Bear, Nichole. Keep it straight.
And thanks.
Tracy (worshipfan) says:
I’m trying to picture the look I would get from my husband if I asked him to bake a cake let alone DECORATE one! I could POSSIBLY get him to slap some icing on a cake in a pinch, but expect something pretty as an end result? NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN!
Good for you! I’m impressed! What does your wife promise to make you willing to decorate a cake? (you don’t have to answer
Sarah Chia says:
That looks awesome! You put me to shame, Shaun Groves.
After 1 vegan cake disaster and another checkerboard cake catastrophe, I’ve thrown in my creative cake towel.
Although…this has been an inspiration, cause my little girls deserve Starburst flower cakes, too.
But maybe I should make Billy do it. *evil laugh*
lorijo says:
i love it! be proud!!
Mark says:
I bake, too. Not sure I could make that cake, however.
Man card perfectly safe as far as I’m concerned.
And great looking cake.
Redneck Neighbor says:
I agree w/ Kenyon….I’ll pick up a box of ammo on the way home and you can get back in the kitchen. The cake did taste good though….
Kelly @ Love Well says:
The only step lower is to start watching The Lifetime Movie Network every afternoon.
I believe Rainbo-Brite also has a blog design you might want to consider.
(You rock. As do your commenters—especially the other “men.”)
(OH, I kid.)
Andrea says:
Here it is: 1 Corinthians 12:10 Still another person is given the ability to speak in unknown languages (Martha), and another is given the ability to interpret what is being said (about Starbursts).
Embrace your gift!
Grovesfan says:
Directions for birthday cake:
1. Drive to Dairy Queen
2. Purchase lovely ice cream cake with appropriate decorations depending on celebration.
3. Add personalization.
4. Bring cake home.
5. Before serving, remove any and all items with Dairy Queen wording, etc. and place cake in tupperware container so as to make it appear homemade.
6. Serve.
As for the above comment “I’m gonna go put on a dress and get my day started now”, I’m here to cast down the official “triple dog dare” ‘cause there ain’t no way that’s gonna happen. You won’t even wear a pink t-shirt so I think your man-card is safe for now.
Beth
Rocks In My Dryer says:
I am speechless. SPEECHLESS. It’s beautiful, and a little girly, but you can pull it off.
Sarah says:
“sammich”
That is great! And the cake turned out really cool, too—the retro colors convey the manly confidence. Alton Brown would be very proud (and he’d probably let you ride his Harley in celebration, too).
Jai says:
Bravo! Good job! You are a dear daddy!
Holly Smith says:
Well done…not only artistic and caring for your family, but FUNNY! Really, really funny. Just how warm is a tad?
PS My Chris got a job two weeks ago (after 4 long months of no job), so we’ll be signing up for two more Compassion children this weekend. Isn’t God so good?
NerdMom says:
I’ll tell you what, I have been afraid of losing my woman card for years. Notice the “nerd” in the title and the tech/sci fi/comic bookness about me. So don’t tell on me and I won’t tell on you. That cake is awesome!
faithful chick says:
It must be said – I have tears in my eyes. I am CRACKING UP. Wheezing, snorting, laughing and CRACKING UP.
Excellent post.
cakes baking says:
Nice cake!, I love baking and I once made a cake for mu hubby, and he liked it..
Very sweet..