Every morning Becky gets up and heads to a workout place with her sister. Every morning for four days now. Before that, for months before that, Becky woke up before the kids and I, popped a DVD in her laptop and kicked and lifted and sat up and whatnot for about an hour. Every morning. While I slept.
I’m thin. (Have you noticed?) Actually, here are the real live numbers: I’m six foot two inches tall and I weigh in at 137 pounds as of Monday. Maybe I’ve seen too many Disney movies but I really don’t care (almost every day) what I (and you) look like.
(On the days I do care it’s usually because a non-thin “fan” has reminded me oh-so-delicately after a show that I am in fact “scary thin” and says something like “Boy, you need to eat!” or “Are you anorexic or somethin’?” Which happens regularly in Houston, Orlando and all of Wisconcin. For some reason it’s OK for a non-thin person to tell me I’m thin in front of a dozen or so people but not OK for me to then reply with “And you’re not.” Go figure. But I’m obviously not bothered at all by any of this, no sir. Well adjusted and forgiving, I am.)
But there is a downside to this being thin thing. I lie.
A lot of thin people, I suspect, do this. We tell ourselves we don’t need to exercise. We tell ourselves that because work-out places and books and magazines and parents on diets tend to talk about exercise only as a way to get thin. That’s the only or most oft expressed goal. And, heck, I am thin already, so most of my life I’ve said I’ll pass on the whole sweating thing, thanks muchly. My “recreation” credits in college were earned by bowling and doing some stretching and breathing that looked a lot like Yoga but was called “Stress Management and Relaxation” by the Baptist(ish) university I attended for obvious soul preserving in-the-world-but-not-of-it sorts of reasons. I am, in a word, inactive. And, in another, happy.
But since marrying, Becky has nagged reminded me again and again that exercise is something we should do to stay healthy and live longer and function better and make the most of the body God has gifted to us and that if I die before her she’ll likely immediately begin sleeping around. With Irish guys. Or friends of mine from high school. (She’s evil because she went to a state school you know?)
And this message of hers turns out to be more persuasive -with much repetition – than any other exercise marketing I’ve encountered. It’s also true that, while I am thin, I do get winded and crampy and occasionally vomit when running to my flight’s gate or doing other physically intense stuff like vacuuming. So tonight I’m trying this class thing at the place she works out. Its description on the brochure contains the words “boot camp” and also lots of exclamation marks!!!!!!!! Yay.
It’s a free trial. But, I’m told, if I “like” the class I can pay the muscled leader guy named Rick (who we actually know and is nice and certified and worth every penny) to make me hate him and hurt myself on a more regular basis.
I’ll keep you updated on my progress toward health because I’m just so certain your life is small and quite the void without knowledge of such minutia about my life. Note: There will be no shirtless videos posted here in said updates. My apologies.
Julisa says:
You hardly exercise at all now and you’re starting with boot camp?! How ‘bout starting off a little more gently? Nothing like doing too much too soon to discourage you from the whole enterprise. (And I know this from lots of experience!) Good luck!
Grovesfan says:
I am inactive an happy too, although no one could ever accuse me of being skinny. I’ve always lived under the belief that if God had wanted me to exercise, I’d have been born in a gym. I wasn’t born anywhere near a gym so I’m safe as far as I’m concerned. I’ll get the body God intends for me when I get to heaven.
Beth
Cali Amy says:
The whole concept of exercise is so weird to me, because it seems so unnatural. I think that’s because there was enough physical work to do in the past that people didn’t need to watch a video and follow the actions.
Forever His Clay says:
I thoroughly enjoyed this. My fiance and I are both incredibly inactive, and I am always telling him we need to start exercising…and to know I am not the only one who threatens finding someone else when he dies young and leaves me a widow in my twenties…how funny.. I even say, hey if you want to die young, go ahead, buit go to church and pick out my next husband!
Is that cruel?
Diabetes runs in his family.
I care.
grace says:
I got a C in bowling in college. It was the lowest score on my college transcript.
Shaun Groves says:
And if God wanted me inactive I’d have been born on a couch. And if God wanted me obese I’d have been born at Golden Corral. And if God…
Seriously?
Cali Amy says:
Was that aimed at me? because I think I just got horribly misunderstood.
Kyle says:
I’m going to step in and say that this excercise thing sounds dumb and made up. Don’t conform!!
Okay, so maybe you should do lifting and muscle mass lifting than the actual cardio part of excercising. That way you can put on some muscle mass, which will equal weight. Also, you should try drinking some fatty protein shakes after you lift.
If that doesn’t work…um, Idk.
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Seaton says:
I’m glad to finally see some modesty on the internet! No shirtless flaunting from you or Brant. I say Bravo!
angie says:
Seriously, You are STARTING wiht Boot Camp?!?!?!
Should we wager on how long it takes you to barf, cramp or pull something vital.
Oh, yeah Christians don’t bet, I forgot!
Good Luck, My Friend, I think you’re going to need it!
Angie
Grovesfan says:
Cali Amy,
I think it was aimed at my comment above; about not being born in a gym, etc. I know it is in fact a very poor excuse for not exercising and that I should exercise for my health. My comment, while true about my lack of exercise was purely sarcastic. Did you temporarily misplace your gift of interpretation today Shaun?
I love you anyway and I hope no one took my earlier comment seriously. If they did, I apologize and ask for forgiveness for any misunderstanding.
Beth
rebecca says:
I was with you until you said “no shirtless videos”.
Now it’s just not worth the time. Sigh.
I wonder if the dating around threat will work on my husband. Worth a try.
I really enjoy your blog.
Jen says:
I don’t know if God tells us to exercise per se, but I think he does call us to take care of our bodies through eating healthy…
http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?passage=Daniel+1:1-21
Shaun Groves says:
Beth, I interpreted just fine. No problem.
Rebecca, my guess is yes.
Jen, you just had to go all bible on us didn’t you? Did my wife put you up to this?
Linda Sue says:
Thank you Shaun Groves for the pledge of no shirtless -you are a God fearing man who also has good sense. Being fit doesn’t have to do with being slender – I’m NOT slender but can outwork many attractively slender people. Go get you some muscle tone fella – and WTG Becky – she is a smart woman using the old “Irish guys and hubby’s high school buds” ploy – although now you’ve blown technique #177 in the how to keep your husband alive and functioning longer handbook. Will you shave your head for bootcamp? Just asking
WunderMom says:
Wow, I hear ya on the skinny thing. Why is it wrong to say someone’s fat but totally ok to say someone’s skinny? (I hate that word “skinny”.) Growing up, people always assumed I was anorexic or malnourished. When I was pregnant with our first child, people said I looked like a string with a knot tied in it, and worried I’d never be able to nourish my child. Now, as a 36 yr old wife and mom of 2 teenage boys, I’m still thin but not scary looking, apparently. I think as you get older the weight will come, but you’re right to want to be healthy.
As a woman, I’ve often bemoaned the plight of the skinny woman, but I’ve never really thought about it from a man’s perspective. Both our boys are skinny. Our oldest is 14, already almost 6’ 1” tall, and weighs about 120. (Impossible to find size 28 waist, 34 length pants! Where do you shop??) Thanks for your post here…it will help me to relate to him.
Gena says:
If you die and go to Hell there are two things you have to do perpetually…. exercise and do laundry!!!