A friend of ours confided last night that she and her husband can’t pay their bills this month. Any of them. They’re making changes, like moving across the country, to get better footing, but until then, for the next couple months at least, they have nothing coming in but bills.
We were honored that they trusted enough to share all this. We promised to help. We’ve done a little but we can’t do it all.
So, once again, I called my church. This time things were different. I was told there’s a new fund, at least it has a new name, that provides for members in these kinds of situations. And our church gives money to an organization called Graceworks as well, that helps those outside our church with groceries, health care and rent assistance. My kids and I have volunteered in their food pantry before and from what I’ve seen it’s a great relief organization for our county.
Because the minister in charge of this new benevolence fund is out of the office, I’ll have to wait until Monday to ask for help on behalf of our friends. In the meantime we’re telling them about Graceworks in hopes that they can get some help a little sooner.
This has me thinking about how I define “Church.” I often say this or that is the Church’s job and not the government’s. I capitalize “Church” because it reminds me that all Christians worldwide are what the bible calls God’s ambassadors, His living letter, His ikon, one “bride.” We are conduits of deity in this sense. All of us, whether meeting in the same building on the same day under the same denominational banner or not, are the Church.
So, if that’s true, then parachurch organizations like Graceworks – funded and supported by the local churches – are the Church too. If they are extensions of the Church then they unify the local churches and allow us to do what the local congregation on it’s own isn’t doing or, for whatever reason, is unable to do. So, every time Graceworks feeds a family my church is feeding that family, and I, as a giver to my church, am feeding that family and the Church is feeding that family.
Does all this take the local church and me off the hook so to speak for personally and more directly extending mercy to those in need though?
When I called Graceworks I was asked, “What have you been able to do to assist this family before contacting us?” Great question. It implies that in Graceworks’ mind mercy is not just my church’s job, or a parachurch ministry’s job, but mine as well.
Loren says:
That place sounds great! MAybe we need to re-define our view of church…I am reminded of the childrens game of clasping your hands together…here is the church, here is the steeple, open the doors and see all the people. I wonder how many funds the early acts church had set aside for benevolence. When some one asks me for help, I pass them off to the church, to social services, If that fails then I find a donor, if that fails maybe I’ll reach into my pocket. Makes me sad.
emma says:
That is a GREAT question. It means we still have responsibility and can’t just pawn people off onto organisations.
kim says:
Shaun,
Did you know my church has a food pantry right down the road? Your family contributed to it in November. I’ll be happy to get you some information. I think they are open on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
Kim
Grovesfan says:
Shaun,
I’m sending you an email about this. Let me know when you get it.
Beth
Barb Weidemann says:
Shaun,
Our church out here in California has the same kind of thing. We call it the “Deacon’s Fund”. From this fund people in the community can receive rent payments, money for utility bills, groceries, small auto repairs, etc…
Very comforting for folks.
Thank you for the interesting comments.
The Lord bless you greatly….Brody’s Mom
Loren says:
What happens when funds run out? December is benvolence time (ironic) All the state money is dried up, 99% of churches giving funds are dried up, but more people call for help in december…Funds are great, my church has one so does your church but the problem still exisits…
euphrony says:
There is a parachute organization similar to what you describe in our area. Our church gives to it, and my family does so on our own as well.
The question you were asked “What have you been able to do to assist this family before contacting us?” is very poignant. It challenges each of us to examine ourselves, to see if we are merely shuffling them off to someone “better equipped” to help while neglecting our own duty to touch lives. It was asking this question that lead my wife and I to begin work with a children’s home, volunteering to host a child during holidays so that they have a chance to interact with a “normal” family outside of the children’s home. We wanted to do much more than make sure they had food every week, we wanted to really impact a life with love.
I’m also glad you got a different response when you called your church this time around. I was saddened when reading the last post.