After almost a decade of travel, I thought I’d sung at a church in every denomination – even the ones that deny being denominations. But Saturday night was a first.
“I’ve never even heard of an Evangelical Covenant church,” I told Jim Black, one of the church’s two pastors.
He explained that the denomination split off from the Evangelical Free denomination in the 1800s – one was Scandinavian and the other was Swedish and he joked that those two cultures were obviously just too different to get along. “We’ve traditionally been big on social justice and service. We’re a very small group,” he said.
Seems like that kind always is, I thought.
Hanging out with Jim and a few other folks at Praxis Café and Community after Saturday night’s concert couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Like the first nose tickle of a cold I’ve felt a bout of cynicism and judgment coming on in the wake of my trip to India. But Jim boosted my immunity.
At Praxis Cafe and Community about 40 to 60 people come together to sing and talk about the bible every Sunday in a building that a small non-profit lets them use in exchange for a monthly donation. For that donation they get more than a place to have a Sunday service though. They also turned the building into a very lo-tech lo-priced café, which really is nothing more than a room with a TV set and a small window through which a limited menu of food and drinks is served.
The place doesn’t get many paying customers. It’s really a one-stop help center for down-and-out folks from the neighborhood. Every day people walk in hungry and leave full at no charge. They get counseling and other help they need. “We’re here if they need us,” Jim said.
If there’s a need Praxis folks can’t meet, they help find someone who can – someone like Oasis Compassion Agency, a ministry run by Sharon Gill – formerly the CEO of a law firm. Sharon started Oasis by herself in the closet of a big church in town. Now, just a few years later, Sharon and a small army provide food, clothing, biblical counseling, job training and life skills to about a thousand people in the area – and some of those find her by finding Praxis first.
A few guys found us Saturday night in fact.
Jim said it happened as I was singing, “When we love the least, when we love the weak, when we love these, we love Jesus.” A few hungry guys from the neighborhood saw all the cars and wandered in. Jim and some other folks served them a meal, poured them some coffee and ate with them. One of those men said he hadn’t eaten in three days, so Jim wondered why he didn’t clean his plate, why he wrapped up half of it and headed out the door. A member of Praxis walked the man home in the dark and when he entered his house he saw the man’s brother – also hungry – washing his clothes in a trashcan. He would finish the meal. The two brothers said they didn’t know the church was there until Saturday night. Now they do.
Jim’s co-pastor is a guy named Michael. I didn’t meet him, but I met his wife, Megan. She works for First Care Family Resources, a crisis pregnancy center in Boca Raton. They offer free and confidential pregnancy tests, sonograms and STD counseling – work made possible by donations and volunteers from the community.
I met a lady named Dovi at the Saturday night concert too. She heard me sing a couple years ago, bought my CDs and shared them with her daughter. Eventually, she brought her daughter to hear me talk about the kingdom and Dovi said the stuff we talked about that night changed the direction of her family’s life. “I came here tonight to kick you and thank you,” she laughed.
She said that after hearing about the kingdom, her daughter came home and wanted to sell all her stuff and give all the money to somebody – she didn’t know who. Dovi and her husband worried that this was just a phase Christina was going through and that when it ended she and her husband would have to buy her all new stuff again. “But it didn’t end,” Dovi said. “Christina’s in Egypt right now.”
Christina’s studying graphic design in college so she can pay her bills but she’s also studying world religions and missions and some other smart sounding stuff so she can use whatever wealth she generates someday and all the time she has left down here to do something – she doesn’t know what yet – to bring the kingdom to earth for more people.
As for Dovi and her husband, they decided they could “let AIG screw up the 401K” or they could pull the money out and screw up themselves. And maybe do something good in the process. So they’ve helped create what they jokingly call a “commune” – it’s a few friends who live in close proximity, share some food and other resources to get their expenses down, and then use a house Dovi donated, their combined skills and cash to provide transitional housing for people who need it, pay the first month’s rent for people who need a way out of homelessness, and hand out burritos to anyone who’s hungry. I had lunch with some other folks from the “commune” on Sunday. They admit they don’t really know what they’re doing yet but they couldn’t just do nothing so they’re just meeting the needs they come across in their neighborhood everyday and figuring things out together as they go.
Dovi and her husband and daughter were a typical upper middle class Christian family two years ago. “Now we’re hippies,” Dovi smirked. “So, like I said, I want to kick you and thank you.”
Thank you, Dovi. And Jim, Michael, Megan and everyone else I met this weekend who showed me how the kingdom is coming to South Florida through them – through churches and individuals. You saved me from myself. Thank you for letting your witness be more than words. Thank you very much.
Faye says:
Wow. Just wow.
misty says:
Wow. Just amazing! I think we all need to get that devoted. Speaking to myself here…as much as anyone else.
Cindy says:
If you only knew how much I HATE to cry you wouldn’t write stuff like this…
Seriously, this is wonderful. Maybe I’m just emotional today. You never fail to inspire me. However, I prefer to laugh instead of weep!
Laurie Oberman says:
Shaun,
My name is Laurie, I run the Cafe at Praxis. It was a thrill for my daughter and myself to meet you. Us folks here at Praxis might have touched you, but you in turn have touched us and showed us that even though we may not have alot, we have a alot more than others do. Thanks for witnessing about Compassion. God has been calling me to do this for a while, but I actually did finally sponsor a child, Saturday night. Thanks for coming to Praxis, the door is always open!
Mary Ann Cooke says:
Hi Shaun,
I’m usually the most verbose person around, but your post has left me speechless! Thank you so much for sharing.
Blessings,
Mary
Andrea says:
Great follow up to the “their doing it all wrong” post. I’m encouraged.
Jim Black says:
Hi Shaun,
Thanks again for coming to Praxis to share your heart with us…
I must confess that I was embarrassed and discouraged by the meager turnout when we had worked so hard to invite and advertise…I was expecting God to bring impressive numbers of people to show His presence and power…what did actually happen caused me to fall on my face in repentence and worship, and a renewed understanding that God is found in the small things (how do I forget this so easily?)…
To add to this story of God working among, in and through His broken people, on Sunday morning 6 people who are currently homeless came to our worship gathering for the first time, participated in our community, ate with us and were embraced by God’s love. This has never happened before to this extent, and we were blown away by the power of His presence (in them!) – isn’t that where Jesus said we would find Him? Should we be surprised? (I need to repent often for my lack of belief…)
As well, there is a new excitement in our community to follow Jesus to the people His heart breaks for, and the weak and the least whom He misses the most. This was evident in the folks who took on kids with Compassion International, as well as a renewed vision to help the weak and the least in our own community. We want to work with others who are already doing this, such as David and Dovi and all at Coral House Community and Sharon at Oasis Compassion Ministires. Thanks again for being available and present for God to spark His presence and movement among us!
We don’t have much, and we certainly are praying that God will provide what we need and make a way where there seems to be no way…and we know that He will.
Oh, and we loved the music as well…your gift is bearing fruit!
Be Blessed! (Matthew 5:3-12)
HIS,
jim black
RevJeff says:
NOW I remember why I miss this place when I am not reading here…
dovi says:
Shaun-i’m going to the junkyard to find your kids some hubcaps…tell me where to mail them(LOL!!!) Seriously, I certainly want to thank you for a wonderful message about the kingdom that moves people to heart-felt, not guilt driven, action…I’m enjoying the live Knoxville CD…as with everything else you produce and certainly hope you’ll visit us here in SoFl again soon…Afterall, Christina missed this one and she has “new” friends that would LOVE to hear your message as well!!! PEACE and Here’s to Kickin’ Ya!
Dovi
PS: Visit coralhousecommunity.com when you can! I’m sure the community would love to hear from you!