It happens all the time doesn’t it?
I lifted the hood of our mini-van to check the oil – seomthing I’ve done a thousand times. My son’s mouth flops open amazed at all the stuff under there. “AWESOME!” he explodes. Yea, I guess cars are pretty awesome.
I went to Uganda with a bunch of first-world folks who’ve never seen the third world before. It messed them up. They cried. They got angry. They got creative. They talked about selling their stuff and giving their lives and blogs to helping kids. Yea, I guess poverty is pretty disturbing/inspiring.
This isn’t stuff I didn’t know. Just stuff I’ve grown accustomed to. It’s become furniture in my cluttered brain, wallpaper you know?
It happened again yesterday.
A friend of mine became a Christian in the last year. And he’s changed. Nobody told him to. He just did. I’ve seen him parent and husband differently. He seems to notice more often now when his wife needs help or his kids need encouragement too. He’s seems more grateful, more alive, more unhappy with the status quo. He talks differently, thinks differently and now he says he feels differently.
We were hanging out yesterday and he told me about work. There’s this guy in his office who’s by all accounts a jerk. Everyone thinks so. And this used to make my friend angry – well, he’s still a little miffed by it, honestly. But now there’s another feeling mixed in with the irritation: “I think it’s…sympathy,” he said with all the wonder of a kid seeing his first engine or an American seeing his first starving child fed.
Yea, this Jesus stuff does work.
And we’re awed together. Messed up even. He gets to see his “enemy” – the whole world – through new eyes. And I get to see it through his.
anne jackson says:
and us, through yours.
Sarah Chia says:
That’s awesome, Shaun.
The power of Jesus living through us is so much deeper and life-changing than someone telling your friend to change or to follow a bunch of rules.
Sounds like he’s really putting credence in the fact that he is a new creation.
hollybird says:
This reminds me of the words of St. Francis of Assisi: Above all the grace and the gifts that Christ gives to his beloved is that of overcoming self.
When He transforms, it does mess with us. Thank God for that! thanks for sharing.
boomama says:
Love this so much.
Redneck_Neighbor says:
Grateful, alive, sympathetic…I bet he’s even good looking too.
Linda Sue says:
Having Christ makes you (to steal a line from Jack Nicholson – a definite 180 in sources from the St. Francis quote) – Makes me want to be a better man (or in my case – a better woman). It is so cool to see the world with a kinder eye – losing some of that kneejerk negativity I’d cultivated for many years. Thanks for reminding me – nothing as sweet as a new believer is there?