Kat asks hard questions. “Why do you blog?” she asked. “What need are you trying to meet?” That was weeks ago and I’ve been pondering ever since…
“Are you famous?” my oldest daughter once asked after a giggly woman walked away from our table at Cracker Barrel.
“Well, to some people,” I explained. Famous, I told my daughter, means that more people know who you are than know who someone else is. So, if more people know Miley Cyrus than know me then to me Miley Cyrus is famous. But what’s that worth?
A person can be known and not kind. Not a good listener. Not a friend. Not a good tipper. Not a present parent. Not loving God or their neighbor.
So being famous says nothing about who a person really is or their relationship with God and others. Fame turns people into products – false gods worshipped by the rest of us.
In James 2 we see that the early church in Jerusalem was in a bad habit of escorting the notables to the good seats and sticking nobodies on the floor. God makes no such delineations: important and not. But we insist upon dividing ourselves – those worthy of the best treatment and everybody else. (If every visitor to a church were treated as well as I am when I show up to sing or speak how different would every church be?)
I was walking across a crowded hotel lobby many years ago during a convention for musicians and their fans in Nashville. A woman saw me, my spiked-up hair and overpriced jeans, whirled me around by the elbow and exclaimed,” Are you somebody??”
And John Piper calls this notoriety poison to his soul and when my songs topped the charts and my shows sold out I felt the venom dissolving my humility and swelling my head. And even now…
Fame hurts the known and the unknown – robbing the famous of humility and accountability and robbing everyone else of purpose and worth.
I started this blog when I was still on a record label, way back in 2005, as a way of destroying the barrier between artist and audience. To keep myself healthy and remind fans of their own value and usefulness to God.
I wanted to kill the divisiveness of fame by becoming a real three-dimensional related person online, not a product – by talking about anything other than my music and career. If I could, I’d take that idea further now.
We’re redesigning shaungroves.com as I type. My hope, at this point, is to make it a space that is more often about others. What if I could introduce you to people who can make us both better?
What if you could meet my mom and dad, my favorite college professor, a brilliant author you’ve never heard of, the wise pastor of a small church who’ll never be given the stage at a conference, a missionary on the front lines of persecution, an executive learning generosity in middle-age, a cancer patient facing death with joy, a teacher remaking the education system, a child who raised money to save lives, a doctor challenging the American Medical Association, a mom overturning death penalty laws in her state, a homeless man who’s learned gratitude, an addict who found sobriety, an adulterer who found forgiveness, a grandmother who went back to school?
I hope I’m not over promising. It’s not a promise really – it’s a desire. That’s all for now.
I want to post interviews and host chats with somebodies – people who love people and love God well right where they are, in fame and anonymity, for the benefit of others and the glory of God. To destroy fame. To empower us all.
If I could do anything with this blog that’s what I’d want to do and why. Thanks for asking, Kat.
Kelli says:
Gosh, I love this. I’m so excited to see what you do with this blog. It seems that blogging has become one more platform for fame – one more place for us to make ourselves known to everyone but God. I struggle with this – with the desire to be known and seen and appreciated, but to what end? Who gets the glory from my words? For so long I’ve tried to share the stage with God Himself, but I’m tired of trying to position myself in the center if the spotlight. It’s exhausting.
Yours has long been my favorite blog to read. I really look forward to watching as you share the spotlight and reading along with others who simply long to make Him known. To contrast my own exhaustion, I can honestly say that I’m at a point where I long to see nothing more than His name be known. I can’t wait to read along and see the changes you implement!
Karen says:
I love the thought of this……
Sara McNutt says:
I love this.
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks for the encouragement, ya’ll. One step at a time…moving forward. We’ll see if we can pull this off ; )
jenn in GA says:
love it love it love it! have several people whose names i’d love to throw in your hopper, if you’re taking them. ask and you shall receive.
Shaun Groves says:
Absolutely! Send them to shaun AT shaungroves dOT COM. THANKS!
Katie Axelson says:
This is awesome! I can’t wait to see how it turns out. ๐
Crystal says:
First, I do not recognize you without the beard. Whoa.
Second..well…you know how much I love this idea ๐ And that Kat sure does ask good questions – it was a discussion with her that had me seeking a focus for my blog & realizing that the heart of it all, for me, is community. Can’t wait to see where God takes this for you!
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks for your help behind the scenes with all this, Crystal. I mean, if it fails? It’s all your fault. ; )
Kat Lee says:
Love this. And I thought I was hassling you with all my questions… ๐
Shaun Groves says:
Time with you always makes me better, Kat. Seriously. No sarcasm. I know it’s hard to tell.
Kat Lee says:
Then…that means you’ll let me interview you on the How They Blog Podcast…right? ๐
Amy says:
When I think of the downside of being “famous” I think “inaccessible”. I don’t see that with you. I appreciate that you’ve made an effort to make your blog a place that draws people in and encourages dialogue.
I look forward to hearing the new stories you share!
Joy Martin says:
Love this ! … been thinking about this same thought as I watch my 90 year old mom — and realize how much she bowed down to lift others up ! Your post is encouraging me to go ahead and follow a prompting from God and write about this ! Thank you !
Jennifer Lambert says:
Yes. Please. Introduce us to somebodies. Show us the stars in everybody. Give us the Holy Spirit in queso – the humor we need! Show us “normal people,” battlers for Truth and Justice and livers of The Word and Grace, the unsung heroes who desire no fame but to recognized by our Father.
Denise says:
What a lovely desire. This is a wonderful idea, and I just prayed for you and this idea you have, that God would give you wisdom as you seek to make this a reality. I started to write that I will pray for you and then said, “why not right now?” Blessings to you.
Liz says:
I love this! I can’t wait to meet those wonderful somebodies!