A lot of education happens in the minivan.
On the way to Chick-fil-A, for example, the kids were talking and drawing in the back seat and I was listening to the news up front. “2 billion?? Wow, that’s a lot of money,” I said.
“What’s 2 billion?” Gabriella asked.
I explained there’s an election about to take place and so politicians are spending a record amount of money right now to get elected. They spend it on TV commercials and radio ads and those little signs along the road. They hope that when they’re in Congress they’ll be able to fix problems our country has.
“If you were in Congress what would you do to help people?” I asked.
“Give money to poor people,” Gabriella, age nine, said.
“Well, let’s think about this. Why are people poor in our country?” I asked.
“Because they don’t have jobs,” Gresham, age eight, said.
“But why don’t they have jobs?” I asked.
“Because they don’t have a car?” said Gabriella.
“They don’t have a car because they don’t have money,” I explained. “And some people don’t have money because they don’t have a job. But why don’t those people have a job?”
They were stumped.
“If you can’t read and write it’s hard to get any job. And if you don’t graduate from college it’s hard to get the best paying jobs. So what could you do in Congress to help that kind of poor person?” I asked.
In what seemed like an eight year-old boy tangent, Gresham broke the silence. “I would make it illegal to make cigarettes.”
“Why?”
“Cigarettes kill people and they get you addicted and they cost money. Cigarette money could buy books so people could learn and get jobs,” he said.
Then I explained that companies, like cigarette makers, give lots of money to politicians running for Congress. The politicians use that money to make their TV commercials and radio ads and those little signs along the road. If the politicians get elected then they make sure no laws get passed that hurt the companies that gave them money.
“That’s wrong,” Gabriella said.
“Yes, it is,” I said.
Then we went to a food pantry and stocked shelves with cans of beans and soup and cereal. Nothing wrong about that.
kristie says:
I think we should call it “mini-van schooling” or “station-wagon schooling.” “Homeschooling” can be a bit misleading. ๐
Marina says:
It’s absolutely amazing when parents don’t miss on opportunities like that to teach, and absolutely frustrating when they do. Moments like these may be the most memorable to the kids while you (as a parent) may not even pay much attention to it!
Erin says:
Ugh, I’ve got a long way to go before we talk politics. I hope I can respond in those teachable moments. For now, I’m enjoying singing “Jesus died for all the children…all the children of the world” at the top of my lungs and teaching my 2 year old the Lord’s prayer. Can time stand still?
Douglas says:
At this point, what can congress do to cigarette manufacturers that they haven’t already done? In many states, including my own, one can’t even smoke in a bar, it has become such a demonized behavior. At what point does legislating against unhealthy behavior become counter-productive?
Shaun Groves says:
That’s beyond my kids’ current grade level. I have no idea ; )
Douglas says:
Good point. I tend to talk over my kid’s heads a lot. I wonder sometimes how much they absorb and how much gets misunderstood.
Kelli says:
I think minivans make us all smarter. I look for every excuse I can find to make me feel cooler in my minivan. ๐ That said, I think there’s no greater way for our children to learn how to help those in need than to simply help those in need. Most (not all, to be fair) politicians would do well to learn this little lesson. It’s no good just to talk about it, right? We have to model it and we have to get in the trenches with our kids and show them what it means to serve. THAT’S a billion dollar idea.
JessicaB says:
Okay, this doesn’t relate to any of this except for the fact that it reminded me of the funniest thing one of my kids have ever said in the car.
Upon passing a city worker cutting the grass in a highway median, wearing a ski mask in the freezing cold, my 5 year old says matter-of-factly, in an oh-so-kip-from-napoleon-dynomite-way:
“Well, there goes a ninja on a tractor. Wonder where he’s going.”
Best. Ever.
Shaun Groves says:
Awesome. I see a t-shirt that needs to be made: A ninja riding a John Deer.
JessicaB says:
Rural Stealth Mode.
Shaun Groves says:
por vous, Jessica: http://yfrog.com/61yl6lj
(Yes, it’s a French ninja on a tractor.)
JessicaB says:
I hope a Groves Parable comes out of all this.
And Jesus replied, “The Kingdom of Heaven is like a … ninja … on a … tractor … ?
Shaun Groves says:
We’ll see what I dream tonight. Could be tomorrow’s post ; )
Shayne says:
I vote Gabriella for President.
I know that the above sentence isn’t proper English, but desperate times call for desperate grammar.
Shaun Groves says:
I feel another t-shirt design coming on.
Kit says:
I need a minivan.