I’ve got a new job. In addition to playing and speaking on behalf of Compassion and leading Compassion Bloggers, now I’m the “leader of worship leaders” at WellSpring Christian church in Spring Hill, Tennessee – a small church that meets together in an elementary school cafeteria and has met my family’s need for community for the last few years. Here’s how I got the job.
First, there was the amicable parting of our youth minister/music guy. He’s on the lookout for a job that plays more to his gifts. As much as we all know his leaving was best for all involved, it sure hurt. His departure left a hole in our community that’s hard to fill. In fact it’s gonna take five of us to (attempt to) fill it.
We have a “worship administrator” guy who’ll be handling the organization and logistics, scheduling musicians, coordinating efforts with the lead sound guy. We have an incredible team of volunteers who set up the room, the chairs and curtains and whatnot every weekend as well. This way we creative types don’t have to do anything we admittedly suck at and don’t have the time to do.
Then there are four of us who will be leading the music on Sundays: JD, Ty, Doug and me. We’ve all led the music before as substitutes but now we’ll be on a regular rotation. Actually, I’ve only sung at our church once so these guys are the real experts. My primary volunteer roles so far have been teaching 2nd and 3rd grade Sunday school and substitute teaching in “big church” six to eight times a year. There are probably people in our church who don’t even know I sing and wonder what kind of job lets me get away with this hairdo!
Our pastor asked me to step in as the leader of these worship leaders, paying most of my attention to the spiritual and musical development of our team. It’s a volunteer position – one I was reluctant to take because of what it would mean for my career, but since the original invitation was given I’ve become more and more convinced of its perfect timing.
Between now and October I’m on the road a lot. But after that I’ve decided to limit my gigs to two weekends each month – which will mean fewer children get sponsored, fewer CDs get sold and my “career” takes a backseat for a while – ends could be harder to make meet. But this transition and these great people I get to serve alongside now deserve as much attention as we can offer them. And I’ve slowly become convinced this is the right move for me.
I know how to arrange songs, put bands together, rehearse them, improve a player or singer over time, etc. But I’m not passionate about all that music stuff. I’m excited to see what will happen to our heads and hearts and relationships in the next year or so as our priorities take shape. I’m most excited about expanding our community’s definition of worship, beginning with our musicians.
What does success look like in this job? I’ve thought about that a lot. If success is innovation and cranking out a CD of original tunes penned by our team or doubling church attendance because of awesome music then, well, I’m not the guy.
Thankfully, that’s not our definition of success. Success is: If the music is very very bad one Sunday, nothing goes right, and no one complains. If musicians are worshiping without songs all week, reading the bible, meditating on it, memorizing it, silently listening to God every day – because they want to. If there are more people in line to teach and serve and give than there are to sing and play. If we can cancel music for a month and people still show up on Sunday to be with God and each other. If silence isn’t squirmed through. If great players befriend pretty good ones and treat them with respect and genuine love. If musicians quit to tend to their marriages or their kids or their faith. That’s what success looks like to me.
God, lead the leader of leaders.
kari says:
good for you. Be blessed in this.
Brad Ruggles says:
Wow, that’s awesome Shaun! I love your definition of success at the end. That’s exactly the kind of stuff I’ve been talking to our launch team about for our church plant. I don’t want just another church where people check off a day a week. I want to have a 7-day-a-week impact in our community. I want the kind of worship that wrecks people. We strive for excellence but require humility. We desire musical talent but desperately need servant leaders.
Can’t wait to read more posts from you on this topic as you step into your new job!
Amy says:
Great Vision! I think you are perfect for the job! God is going to do some amazing things through this team.
Princess Leia says:
That’s awesome, and I think you’ll do a great job!
As you get into the middle of it, if you have some practical tips for the rest of us, feel free to shoot ’em out! Our Saturday night service is led by a team of “worship leaders” (hate that term). I don’t think anyone minds the stylistic differences from week to week, but the logistics of figuring out who’s in charge each week (even though we each have assigned weeks) and who will be in the band each week have been mind-bogglingly difficult lately.
Add to that the idea of the “leaders” actually worshiping and not just performing (while still attempting to strive for musical excellence and not merely a “joyful noise” AND actually growing spiritually in the process)…
Heh….prayers of encouragement for all of us!
Jennifer says:
If you’re where God wants you, then He will provide everything….including the kids getting sponsored through compassion. I just got my first letter from 1 of my sponsor kids.
Thomas says:
I love your definition of success.
Kelly says:
You continue to impress me Shaun!
Melanie says:
Sometimes being right where God wants you to be right when He wants you there doesn’t make sense to the “real” World. Enjoy this new season of your life!
Josh says:
Praying for some major joy for you during this season. Thanks for sharing it!
dave pettigrew says:
shaun, your last paragraph is fantastic. totally agree. all the best with this. to have God be made more famous, to have God lifted high, to have God be made the focal point of every thing that is done onstage…that’s the goal…..all the best bro….
Kyle says:
Wow. Great definition of success.
Thanks.
NancyTyler says:
Hey, I’m so happy that you’re getting to do what you were planning to do before the music career intervened! Ginny Owens has done something similar over the last couple years, fulfilling her pre-music star dream of being a music teacher.
Thank God, that He keeps alive the old dreams planted when we are young, and gives them back when we’re seasoned enough to live them out well.
Shaun Groves says:
I never made that connection, Nancy. A little slow I guess ; ) Thanks for connecting the dots, friend.
Cheri says:
Once again you’ve inspired me, Shaun. Looking forward to the coming year and the “success” as you’ve defined it. Thanks.
Kris says:
This sounds truely awesome to me. I’m thankful that you have this oportunity and I admire your desired outcome.
I will be praying.
FzxGkJssFrk says:
I’m looking forward to reading about this. I’ve been leading worship in a church plant for about a year and as hard as it is in Nashville, it’s that much harder to put together a team in Maryland. I feel like most of my time is spent just keeping my head above water both musically and spiritually, and I don’t have a lot of good ideas of how to serve my team well when I’m in that state.