I’ve disconnected for the last few days from phones and computers. I’ve learned the hard way what it feels like to near empty and what happens when I ignore the gauge, go on running on fumes and self-determination. I know how important it is, before reaching empty, to be with people who fill me back up and in lots of silence too.
At times like this, I find myself wanting to sense God so badly, so in need of proof that He’s here and notices me, so thirsty like the deer is for water, that I get angry with God for not being more tangible, for being what seems like aloof. I ask for God’s comfort, joy, strength, and demand to immediately or very quickly receive it. I want a miracle, a supernatural encounter, an epiphany, a burning bush or blinding light and what I get instead is steady silence under the trees in the front yard.
In yesterday’s steady silence I picked up A.W. Tozer’s The Pursuit Of God and read these words written in 1948:
Receptivity is not a single thing; rather it is a compound, a blending of several elements within the soul. It is affinity for, bent toward, a sympathetic response to, a desire to have. From this it may be gathered that it can be present in degrees, that we may have little or more, depending upon the individual. It may be increased by exercise or destroyed by neglect. It is not a sovereign and irresistible force which comes upon on us as a seizure from above. It is a gift of God, indeed, but one which must be recognized and cultivated as any other gift if we are to realize the purpose for which it was given.
Failure to see this is the cause of a very serious breakdown in modern evangelicalism. The idea of cultivation and exercise, so dear to the saints of old, has now no place in our total religious picture. It is too slow, too common. We now demand glamour and fast-flowing dramatic action. A generation of Christians reared among push buttons and automatic machines is impatient of slower and less direct methods of reaching their goals. We have been trying to apply machine-age methods to our relations with God. We read our chapter, have our short devotions and rush away, hoping to make up for our deep inward bankruptcy by attending another gospel meeting or listening to another thrilling story told by a religious adventurer lately returned from afar.
…Let us say it again: The universal Presence is a fact. God is here. The whole universe is alive with His life. And He is no strange or foreign God, but the familiar Father of our Lord Jesus Christ whose love has for these thousands of years enfolded the sinful race of men. And always He is trying to get our attention, to reveal Himself to us, to communicate with us. We have within us the ability to know Him if we will but respond to His overtures. (And this we call pursuing God!) We will know Him in increasing degrees as our receptivity becomes more perfect by faith and love and practice.
NancyTyler says:
Good on you for recognizing you needed to unplug–and then actually doing it. That second part is pretty hard for me.
I’m praying you’ll experience the reassurance of God’s presence and His active love for you, even if He’s not showing Himself to you in the ways and places you’d normally see Him.
Rest in the truth that He is still right there.
Sassiekiwi says:
Hi Shaun
I have been lurking reading your posts for nearly a year. Today … I just had to comment. I am gripped by this phrase:- Receptivity “may be increased by exercise or destroyed by neglect”.
Like you … I also have realized I am running on very low tanks right now … and like you … am hungry to connect with God … the other night I sat and thought, I don’t even know how to do this right now … how to still myself and listen. I have been on the crazy roundabout of life and it has been a blur of color and speed … but there is a whine in the motor and smoke pouring out of the engine! This was very timely for me. Thankyou.
Shaun Groves says:
Thanks for unlurking yourself. Your words sound so familiar.
Princess Leia says:
So important, yet so hard to do. To be still. There’s always a kid around that needs (or at least wants) something. There’s always some meeting to go to or something else on the “to do” list that needs to be done. There’s always background noise.
And even though those can all be “good” things, it’s just too much sometimes. Maybe that’s why Jesus always went away by himself for a little while.
Do you think it’s different when the person is an extrovert?
Shaun Groves says:
I don’t know. Like a lot of creative types I know, I bounce from the extremes of extroversion and introversion. Extroversion wears me out for obvious reasons, but introversion can be equally tiring because it can keep me from bring fully present (spending time in the oops of the past and the what if of the future) and leads to rumination: dwelling on a thought, playing it over and over. Research has shown that ruminators are more likely to experience depression too.
I think both extroversion and introversion pose different but maybe equal risk to our mental/spiritual/relational/physical health. In my experience anyway.
Lisa says:
Ruminating a lot lately myself, Shaun. Don’t much care for it either. I’m also one of those creative types, and I, too, bounce from the extremes of extroversion and introversion. I honestly could’ve written your exact words.
I’m not getting a lot of the answers I’m seeking from God right now, and for the first time in my adult life, I’ve actually found myself skipping church regularly. Why? Can’t tell you. I love my church. It’s like food for my soul. You may have heard of it — Southeast Christian in Louisville, KY. I guess maybe I’m a bit peeved at God right now, and that makes me feel a little dirty. A little guilty even. Grew up a preacher’s daughter, so I’m sure you get my drift. Hoping to find my way back soon, but right now, at the risk of sounding bitter (which I am) , I feel like God’s flipped me the ‘ole bird. So I’m processing. And listening to a lot of the old hymns I grew up singing.
I love Jesus with all my heart and soul. But right now, I’m at odds with Him.
Thanks for allowing me to babble. And thanks for sharing your heart. It’s certainly helped mine.
Beth says:
Very profound finding. I think I will clip this and put it in my Bible. I need this reminder often. Thank you friend.
Beth
JessicaBowman says:
I know, everyone knows, that this journey with Christ has it’s highs and lows. But it’s the in betweens I really hate. At least at the peaks, good or bad, I’m positive of God’s presence.
How do you get that awareness, that closeness, that aliveness back when it wanders away from you…or when you wander away from it? How do you make your bible alive and exciting again when you could care less about picking it up, and even if you force yourself to look at a page, it says nothing to your heart?
I mean, besides the obvious answers of Repent, Fast, Read, Pray, Repeat.
That’s all I know to do. To keep trying the above sequences until the spiritual rubik’s cube connection to God lines back up again.
Le Sigh.
Shaun Groves says:
I don’t know the steps, Jessica. There doesn’t seem to be a button for that. That’s what I’m (re(re))learning now.
Brittany says:
This is a great reminder that God does not always work how we think He ought to. His ways are higher than ours. (Our technology has nothing on the God of the universe!)
I’m encouraged to take a bit of time to “unplug”. It’s so easy to make excuses for excessive use of technology, but the truth of the matter is, I don’t “need” it. It wastes a lot of my time. Precious time that I could be spending with Jesus, being reminded of who He truly is and how much He truly loves me.
Thanks for sharing, Shaun.
Derek says:
You described how you felt, and what you said you felt is what i am often feeling, and is what I’ve been feeling lately. thanks for this.
Cara says:
Ah, Tozer. I remember Tozer – I used to devour his books when I went to visit my in-laws. I’ve asked my father in law to please leave me his Tozer collection when he goes to personally meet the man in Heaven. ๐
One way to tell that the Holy Spirit has inspired a work is to find it timeless; those words penned in 1948 are as true today as they were back then. We are indeed a “push button society” used to “automatic machines” and even if Tozer had no idea what technology had in store, our God certainly did.
You have SUCH a knack for posting things that are oh-so-relevant to my spirit at just the time I’m in that place. It’s like a gift or something.
This post is a gem, a beautiful reassurance that God is still out there, still loving me and that He desires for me to respond to his overtures. I just feel so unworthy, you know?
JD says:
It’s been years since I’ve felt this way, Shaun, it’s but a vaguely familiar memory for me. I remember enough to understand how difficult it is, and I want you to know that my heart is pressed into prayer for you (and others) going through this season of needing to feel Him tangibly.
Your words, “I want a miracle, a supernatural encounter, an epiphany, a burning bush or blinding light and what I get instead is steady silence under the trees in the front yard.” It’s at times such as those that perhaps God wants us to quiet our hearts, lean in extra close to Him, so that we’ll see and feel His presence, His hand in the smallest of details… it’s not always a burnish bush, or a parting of the sea — sometimes it’s a barely audible, whisper soft “I love you” in the life that surrounds you. Lean in, Shaun, press in to Him and you will find Him.
Shayne says:
I needed this today. Thank you.
Meredith Dunn says:
I’m going to sound like a broken record, but… me too. I’m there too. It kind of feels like a plateau– above the valley but in front of the mountain. It’s not a bad place to be– there’s just not a whole to do here. think it’s good to be brought to places of forced rest and waiting because so often, at least for me, I get ahead of God. I think I know where He’s pointing me, so I take off sprinting when in fact He wanted to take a left… way back there. Does that make sense? All this to say, thanks for sharing.
owlhaven says:
Shaun,
This morning while driving home from errands I was deep in my head, writing my own riff on this idea, and then I come here and read you! I’ll get my words out later tonight…now I have to go watch my kids splash in the pool….
Thanks, as always, for sharing…
Mary
Jenny says:
“We read our chapter, have our short devotions and rush away, hoping to make up for our deep inward bankruptcy”
ugh. Convicting.
My friend said to me once when I was complaining about God abandoning me… “Maybe He isn’t abandoning you, maybe you are abandoning yourself.”
It has stuck w/me because sometimes I think my lack of felt-connection w/God is also because I’m refusing to acknowledge my own needs, wants, desires too…