A few years ago my father-in-law, Phil, started making trips up from Texas a couple times a year to plant a garden in our backyard for us. He tilled up a square in my backyard and put seeds in the ground. It looked easy.
Becky and I watched him work, asked questions, even wrote some stuff down.
Thanks to Phil we had a few years of monstrous squash..
…zucchini the size of an obese cat…
…lower grocery bills and plenty to share with neighbors.
Then, last year I decided to take what Phil did and improve change it just a little.
My changes gave me a garden twice as big and just downright prettier than Phil’s.
I laid down a weed barrier, then built sturdy above ground boxes and filled them with store-bought “premium garden soil.” I left room for a path between the boxes and filled it with large pebbles. Very zen meets Better Homes and Gardens.
I planted seed just like Phil did except I added some expensive “premium organic plant food” into the holes. I watered just like Phil did except I used the stuff collected from the rain barrels I made.
When the first tufts of green poked their heads up I told a couple neighbors we’d soon have enough to feed the whole cul-de-sac. “Just go back there and grab what you need.”
The tufts turned into sprawling towering plants. Much bigger than Phil’s.
A friend who’s gardened for years came over and expressed discontent with her own garden after seeing mine. I’m not sure she’s been happy ever since. Another friend suggested I write a do-it-yourself gardening e-book. Gosh, I started thinking, I could start gardens for other people and create a gardening blog and a conference for vegetable planters and a blog for the conference for vegetable planters and a conference for vegetable planters who blog and…
Every day the plants got larger and so did my head while we waited for the first fruits to appear. And waited and waited…
Our poster child squash plants produced zero squash last year but some very nice yellow flowers. Our tree-sized tomato plants squeaked out a whopping three tomatoes but the girth of the vines toppled their cages.
My garden might have been the state’s biggest and prettiest last year. But a salad would have been nice. That’s the whole point of a garden right?
This year I’m testing the soil. Phil told me to.
pete wilson says:
Planting ours this afternoon. My vegetables had a bitter taste last year. But then again, at least I had vegetables. ๐
Good luck.
Shauna says:
Make friends with your local Extension agent and Master Gardeners!
Cynthia says:
Manure!
…………not your post…… but use it for fertilizer. It yields beautiful plants and great veggies! I’m a farm girl, so we use cow manure, but any ole livestock scat would work. Just don’t over do it!
Happy Gardening!
shayne says:
Our church owns 33 acres in the foothills of the Smokies. I’ve been asking our Pastor for a little plot to have a community garden. He thinks it’s a great idea, but is afraid that it would start out with lots of workers and end up with only one or two.
Your thoughts?
Also, I am not a gardener…I live in a townhouse and I would love to start a small garden on my patio…suggestions?
Holli says:
Well… you made me laugh out loud. Sorry you missed your salad days. ๐
I just signed up for a CSA today. That is much more in line with my gardening abilities. Hope you have a bumper crop this year.
Holli
Thomas says:
Thanks for the lesson. I guess I should not try to build on or try to change what all ready works. God has a reason for the way things are to done.
Thomas
Holly @ Crownlaiddown says:
Glad I *overheard* your convo with Sophie…. A Word to ponder Shaun…
Zack says:
I hear you loud and clear amigo!
I see the trend and I see the damage it does.
I also understand why it happens. Being known as the poster child of success for whatever you do is just so dang tempting.
I love Matt Chandler’s vision at the Village Church: he says a litmus test that they often use for how they’re doing is: is this reproducible?
When you look back on a season or an event, can you explain how it happened?
If so, you probably rested on your own capabilities too much, and on God’s sovereign hand too little.
Ben says:
Ha! Gardens… We don’t get to plant for another two months. Welcome to Montana…
Mandi says:
Told my hubby (he’s a big garden person) about your problem and he said it sounds like too much nitrogen in the soil. Lots of foliage and no fruit = too much nitrogen in the soil. Adding manure will add nitrogen to the soil, as will most fertilizers. I hope it works better for you this year.
Sarah Valente (Kingdom Mama) says:
OK, that’s pretty much the only thing I don’t like about living in the mountains. If you blink, our growing season is over. Gonna try some boxes on the patio soon though…thanks for the laugh and the lesson!
Cara says:
Okay, so we are *just* seeing the last of our snow and cannot plant anything until the end of May. I am just a bit jealous.
Also, I was reading this post and waiting for the spiritual “whammy” at the end… you know, something about how our lives might look “pretty” and wonderful as we spend out time and money on the things we need to “garden” but if there’s no “fruit” (er, veggies) at the end of it, we’re pretty useless.
But then you just left it at simple gardening. I figure if that direction where my mind went, then maybe God is just using your story to aim at that little place in my heart meant just for me. ๐
Still jealous you can even think about gardening at this stage of spring though. ๐
Shaun Groves says:
A parable isn’t always labeled ; )
Thanks for getting it anyway.
dubdynomite says:
Somehow, I sense this post might not have been about gardening, actually.
misty says:
I just told my husband on the way home from work yesterday that we needed a garden.
We have an empty lot next to our house that the former owners had a fairly large garden on.
Maybe next year…