We walked for a mile or so from the Compassion project on jagged roads made of red clay.
Down a steep hill to a small metal home.
And met “grandmother.”
She told us her story: Her oldest daughters skipped town and left grandmother with five grandkids and one daughter of her own to raise.
One day she enrolled her two youngest grandchildren into Compassion International’s sponsorship program. A great day not just for two but for seven.
As social workers, board members and pastors from the Compassion project got to know grandmother and her kids, they slowly uncovered the depth of the family’s poverty. No beds. Almost no food. Battling the physical and mental effects of malnutrition. No ability to make ends meet and no hope of breaking free of poverty’s grasp anytime soon.
When Compassion sponsors met the needs of two grandchildren they lightened grandmother’s load tremendously but it wasn’t enough. What else could be done for her?
Compassion could write grandmother a check every month, or drop food off at her house daily, but that would create dependency. That kind of help hurts.
So the Compassion project staff instead wrote up a grant proposal, essentially – a proposal asking Compassion headquarters in the US to release funds above and beyond a sponsor’s $38 each month: Money that would help grandmother help herself and her entire family.
The money was not handed to grandmother but was used by local Compassion staff to buy her a cow.
Unbeknownst to Compassion or grandmother at the time, the cow was pregnant. Two for the price of one! “A miracle,” she said.
Today grandmother has three cows producing milk for her family and plenty to sell to neighbors too. With the money from milk sales grandmother bought a cart and a donkey so she can carry hay, milk and logs – cutting this sixty year-old’s workload dramatically. And with a consistent income now she can feed her own family and that independence has put the biggest smile on her face.
Grandma is a proud cattle rancher now!
Think of sponsoring a child like building a bridge. On one end is you and Compassion. On the other is a child in need of education, food, clothing, healthcare, play and hope. But when that child’s family is “highly vulnerable“, that bridge allows Compassion’s care and your letters of encouragement to pour into the whole home.
Sponsorship is a bridge. And sometimes, across that bridge, walks a couple cows, a donkey and a miracle.
Thanks to Brad Ruggles and Ryan Detzel for the great pics of our visit to grandmother’s house.
Steve Jones says:
Great story! Crazy how a cow can turn a world around.
Stretch Mark Mama says:
Very moooooving, thank you. ๐
benstewart says:
Nice.
thegypsymama says:
Thanks to you Shaun, for being a bridge for us into a new place and a new way of seeing the world.
~Lisa-Jo
benstewart says:
Great story of how Compassion is more than it might seem on the surface. I’m glad to see how Compassion doesn’t try to fit families into their box but rather they change the box to fit the needs of the families.
Bethany says:
I agree, that’s the best kind of help.
Jennifer says:
Thank you for sharing this story with us. It brings with it a whole new way to look at sponsorship. Through sponsorship, we really are able to pour hope into an entire home. That’s pretty powerful.
Janet says:
Thank you for the wonderful story showing how God is using our sponsorships to bless entire family’s.
I was delighted to hear about this journey to Kenya and enven more so when I saw you were on the trip. Your father-in-law is my Pastor and I have enjoyed your visits from time to time.
Safe journey and may God bless all that you all are doing there.
If your travels take you to EAPC Isiolo Town Church Dev. Center look up a little girl named Mutheu and give her a special hug from me. Long shot I know.
Ann Voskamp@Holy Experience says:
And Christ lays the beams of the bridge with a cross… and love walks straight across.
I wonder if the body of Christ is best formed in the shape of a bridge?
dawn says:
Wonderful story. so proud of compassion and the way you all allow Jesus to love through you in tangible ways.
God is so honored.
Barbara says:
This is precisely why our family loves Compassion. Working to free people into independence, not unhealthy dependency, working through the churches, meeting true, tangible needs….Love it. This is (almost?) my favourite of your posts yet. Thank you.
Kelli says:
What a great story. I love that you guys are sharing stories of hope! My husband and I love being a part of Compassion’s ministry (our child is in the Phillipines) and reading these stories makes me love it even more. Thanks so much for sharing with us!!!
Jill Foley says:
Another awesome story, Shaun. Thank you so much for sharing these with us. Although many of us already believe strongly in Compassion’s work, you are bringing the reality of it right into our homes – hopefully making us dig a little deeper into our pockets so we can build more bridges.
Sheri says:
This is why we do what we do over here in Bangladesh. Helping in ways that truly help, rather than foster dependency. A beautiful reality we’ve witnessed over and over. Thanks for sharing it.
Roberta says:
Just loved this post and how Compassion is truly helping these families have better lives and not be dependent on a system. I shared the link to this post today on my blog ๐
http://con-tain-it.typepad.com/bobis_business_of_bliss_i/2010/03/build-a-bridge-today.html