Every human being is a minister – created no better or worse than every other human, and given the opportunity constantly to make the Invisible visible in millions of ways. Putting on a guitar or signing a record deal doesn’t change any of this.
Here are some tips for being a minister – in this sense of the word – when you’re job happens to be soft rockin’. I’m human, so I’m better at writing these things down than I sometimes am at living them out, but you know that already right?
1. Don’t hide. Don’t spend the day in your tour bus/green room/hotel room/bed. Don’t leave the stage and retreat to your tour bus/green room/hotel room/bed.
2. Do connect. Be with people. Sadly, everywhere you go you’re treated as a notch above the sea of humanity – to some degree. Swim in that sea as often as possible to remind yourself and the other fish that you’re nothing special. And, who knows, someone out there in the deep end might need you today. Or you might need them. You’ll never find out if you hide. And hiding is downright unbiblical. James tells us not to allow divisions in the Church between the rich and poor, the influential and the (supposedly) not-so-much. So do your part to obey that commandment. Be the first one into the building. Meet everyone form the janitor to the pastor. Hang out, hug, listen, pray, laugh, confess, eat late-night waffles.
3. Don’t set up an autograph table or line. This is a personal preference I suppose. I can’t stand sitting behind an autograph table or standing before a line of autograph and photo seekers. It re-erects that barrier between artist and audience I’ve worked so hard to tear down all night. And it makes it nearly impossible for real connection to happen, for a real exchange to take place. You want to make it possible to have a real conversation with people and a line just isn’t conducive to that sort of thing.
4. Don’t travel alone. This is non-negotiable for me. I travel with a road manager/friend. This person, for me, is not just an employee. They have to be a partner, someone who understands what I’m trying to accomplish and buys in totally, who isn’t afraid to tell me when I need to change or improve. This individual, behind my wife and Brian, is the most important and often-seen person in my life. They help protect my heart, mind and marriage and help me improve everything I do. Some folks tell me they can’t afford to travel with a partner. I can’t afford not to.
5. Do be easy. I tell every road manager I have that our goal at every stop is to be the easiest people the promoter has ever worked with. Promoters – especially pastors – have this expectation that artists and their crews are difficult. They expect me to want green M&Ms and complain about the sound system. They expect this because they’ve encountered it in the past. My goal is to be easy, even if it means I don’t get everything I want. Being easy might mean the sound isn’t great, but only good. It might mean I don’t get dinner, or I get a poor night’s sleep or I lose money. But keeping the peace, exceeding expectations and getting invited back or recommended to someone else is worth so much more than getting my way.
6. Do travel less. What does it a profit a man to make more money and sell more CDs if he loses his soul, sanity, health, family or friends? I’m not in charge of my schedule. My wife and road manager/friend and I make those decisions together. We’ve set up limits on how many gigs I’ll do each month, how long a run of shows can be and determined how much time I need off between runs. If I want to make an exception to any of those rules we all have to agree on that. It works for us.
What would you artists out there add to this list?
BUSH says:
these are great thoughts man. this is why i loved traveling with you for that short time. we both have the same thoughts on this stuff.
Minister First – i have always thought of myself as a minister first, and insert (profession here)second. For me I am a minister first, and then a bass player/photographer second. Our profession, whatever that might be, is a our gateway to us being a minister.
Learn Their Names- The best way to love on someone and show that you really care is to take time to learn their name. If you are a worship band or christian artist, and don’t know most of the names of the staff/volunteers/drama/speaker/ by the time you leave your event…you aren’t really being a minister. You aren’t really showing the people there that you care about them.
Don’t Think of Yourself as Special or Selected or Blessed More than others just because you travel & do Ministry – I was at an event a week ago, and the speaker there prayed a prayer that said, “God we are so blessed to do what we get to do…thanks for allowing us to minister…there are guys who work on drill presses 10 hours a day, and we’re thankful we can do this” Hmm…is there a way you can rebuke a prayer?
it didn’t sit well with me at all. We have to remember that people who work real jobs…have the ability & are probably doing more real ministry than we will ever see. We can’t be Christian Elitist.
ok…i’ll stop…I’m sorry I just hi-jacked your comments. Shaun thanks for posting this. I hope we can travel again in the future. It was good times man. I will be in Haiti this week with the Compassion Crew. I’m excited. I hope you are well.
Shaun Groves says:
You nailed me on the names thing, Bush. i SUCK at remembering names. I try but, seriously, that part of my hard drive is full. I’ll try harder for sure.
Thanks for the others too. GREAT advice/thoughts.
Hey, if the power’s up and the internet is up to it, please BLOG while you’re in Haiti. Show us what you see and tell us some stories. Glad you’re photo takin’ skills are headed to Haiti with Compassion.
Jeff Honnold says:
Well, as someone that was one of your past promoters I can say that from my experience with you all of the above are things that you certainly do well.
Considering that when you spoke and played at our church you had 1) missed your flight that morning – you were traveling alone that week because Ben was on vacation so you can blame him for that
2)got to the church just in time to do a quick 5 minute soundcheck 3) got in too late to be able to eat any dinner and 4) were playing on a hot summer night in a church with no air conditioning you never once gave the impression that you were stressed. You treated me great and with respect.
You took the time to talk to each person that came in to volunteer at the tables like a friend and made realize that what they were doing was the most important part of the night.
You just hung out afterward talking with every person that was there, not acting like you were better than any of them. You never once let on that you then had to leave there to drive to Michigan after having traveled all day (hope you got a little rest that night).
Thank you for not just writing these things but for living them out and showing those of us in ministry what were really here for!
Laura says:
Shaun you played in East Orlando in 2001 when I worked at the UCF Wesley Foundation. Most of the students had never heard of you and were excited for the main performer (and interestingly there was another performer who has now “kissed a girl” but anyway… To this day I still hear students that worked the event mention how much they enjoyed you. As we worked our tails off setting up and tearing down you were not hiding on the tour bus but were hanging out with everyone. It really meant a lot to them and made a deep impression.
Kevin Riner says:
I used to try the same things you do Shaun and my band would get mad at me. I told them the people were the most important thing. That WAS why we were there!
Another thing you do that I’ve made a bunch of band mates mad is it’s not about professionalism on stage. You talk, candidly. I think this should be done as well. I would make crack jokes to the other band mates and they’d laugh it off and give me the 20 after the show. People wanna know that the musician is a real person.
Great advice. I try to follow all of them. Somehow I think we’re in the minority though Shaun. But that’s ok. That’s where I feel the best.
Shell says:
Awesome list. I’ve never seen you in concert, but this list definitely makes me really want to. It sounds like you are doing an awesome job in ministering to those you connect with…keep it up!