Ever feel like the world’s made of ants and your backside’s dipped in sugar?
First, Penelope (age 2) woke up this morning asking Becky when I’d be home. “I want Daddy to hold me.” Ripped my heart out.
Then there’s the hate mail. I got two precious gems in my inbox today, both upset that I was to play at a Catholic church tonight. I got to spend an hour of my life lovingly explaining (and editing and re-explaining) why I would sing about God in a place where God is worshipped.
Then I pushed notes through my swollen throat all evening. 30 people braved the cold and snow. An amp blew, half the speakers went out and I tripped on stage twice.
Am I the only one so whiny that he has to make an effort to see the good in an only slightly blemished day?
My cell phone found signal here in Indiana twice today. I got to hear my family’s voices. Gabriella (age 7) made me a picture.
I made peace with an enemy on the phone. I forgave and was forgiven. I’m free.
I sang to a mixed crowd of evangelicals and Catholics in a beautiful church – and for a couple hours we thought and sang the same things.
Three old friends (the Lohes and Cristy) came out to see me. Cristy brought me a much-needed coat her son doesn’t use. I told them the things I can’t blog about and we laughed and hugged and I felt less alone out here on the road by myself.
And, lastly,three children now have new friends in America.
Take that, ants.
Now, how do I get this sugar off?
P.D. Ross says:
I would say a long dip in a hot bath can take care of the sugar.
Hate mail for playing in a catholic church. Are you serious?
See you next friday!
Dan da Man says:
Hate mail for playing at a Catholic Church? Reminds me of one of last week’s posts: http://www.shaungroves.com/shlog/comments/persecuting_church/
As a practicing Roman Catholic who likes Shaun Groves, I’m happy to see a Catholic church that takes some initiative to bring brothers and sisters of various Christian traditions together under one roof. If I didn’t live 10 hours away, I’d be there too.
Mr. Police Man says:
Shaun, have you ever posted why you don’t play large shows (cuz we all know you could) and on the side…family permitting… play the free shows?
If so, refer me!
thecachinnator says:
I know this is probably way off the point, but do you have to answer the hate mail? What would happen if you just ignored it? Is it an “only help just one” thing? Is it worth it? Does it make a difference? I’m honestly curious here.
Grovesfan says:
I personally think that when people send you hate mail, it’s because they are truly lonely, or they feel they can strike out against you because it’s in cyber space and somehow “OK.” Ignorance and prejudice is always a dangerous mix and it’s impossible to have the second without the first.
Beth
Dan "da Man" says:
That’s true. The couple times I get hate mail, if I send an honest response to their e-mail, they often come back and apologize for their actions. I guess when they first encounter the website you’re a large, faceless person, but when you actually talk directly to them, you’re actually a person, which they didn’t think you were.
FzxGkJssFrk says:
Shaun, *obviously* God was mad at you for playing at a Catholic church, and for not taking the hint about losing your voice. That explains the tripping and the blown amp. Q.E.D. </sarcasm>
Having never bathed in sugar myself, I’m afraid I can’t help you there.
Bella Louisa says:
Shaun,
I love your music and your blog. Thank you for singing “Twilight” for me. You are one of the top artists that I listen to!
Cheri Herron (tour photographer) and I have sent you a few pics of the Connersville concert and we will be sending the ones of the Greenfield concert soon. Hope you are receiving them okay.
Luke Austin Daugherty enjoyed opening for you and also getting to know you better.
Let us know if we can ever help you in central Indiana.
Stay warm!
Bella Louisa
Shawn Bashor says:
Does that mean you have a sweet ass?
mamasboy says:
An amp blew and half the speakers went out?
Sure sounds to me like you played at a Catholic church. My guess is less than 5% have decent enough sound equipment to host a small one-man concert for an audience of 30. I think I’ve been to one (out of dozens all over the country) with a sound guy and good equipment.
MB
Rachel says:
Shawn B…I laughed out loud.
I tripped coming onto stage at a worship session this morning. It hurt my toe and my pride, but at least there were only about 5 people gathered.
Darn ground box came outta nowhere.
I have to admit…I’m jealous that you got to play in a beautiful church and that you go to be in snowy weather. You may not appreciate the snow, but I love it and miss it. Ah well.
Hope you feel better soon, Shaun!
kathryn says:
what a great, honest post. love the opening sentence!
Ellie says:
Hey, I met you on saturday in elgin. something you said during the show made me think about my grandma. i thought you might find it intresting I blogged about it. ellie08.blogspot.com
tanner says:
haha… okay so i just finished listening to your “myspace greeting” and i must say, it gave me quite the chuckle. anyway, i came across your blog via some of my friends’ blogs.. or should i say your “shlog”. well, just wanted to say that one good thing about myspace is that (for me) i get to check out and listen sample songs of artists before i go and invest on their cd. so, now i know what you sing like… so 1 kudo for myspace. but yes, it still sucks spam.
ok, so this had nothing to do about your current post.
Tina says:
Yes! I had one of those kind of days today. But just as you discovered, there were still many wonderful aspects of the day…God’s mercies to name just one! Thank you for your outlook and for sharing your honesty with the world!
aaron says:
it’s all about my perspective.
It’s either ants on my back, or a back rub.