His backpack was packed a week in advance. And the questions lasted as long too.
How long is the plane ride? Is there food on the plane? What hotel are we staying at? How late can I stay up? What does a road manager do?
My wife, Becky, is good about spending time with each of our kids individually. She sits at the art table and draws with Penelope (age eight). She lays in bed with Gabriella (age 12) and talks about school, faith, feelings, boys. Becky reads books with Sambhaji (age six) and destroys Gresham (age 10) in intense Skipbo matches.
But as our family has grown, I’ve treated my children more like a herd than four individuals. Sure, I spend time with them one-on-one, but usually when I play games or go out to eat or read books, it’s with the whole herd at once.
I wasn’t always this way. And I wanted to change.