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		<title>By: Dreamer</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7270</link>
		<dc:creator>Dreamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 01:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;You know&#8230; a lot of people would disagree with words being JUST words. Yes, the letters only add up to simple things but as a whole they have...umm&#8230; depth. If you are a pessimist (please ignore my undefendable spelling/grammer) and it helps you to feel a little better with venting your anger on a blog, by all means go ahead! Well, that&#8217;s my personal opionion.
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I have a blog but I can&#8217;t say it has a purpose other than to ramble on and get opionions for stories. And yeah, I mean, I still care if people look at it. Why? Mainly because I&#8217;m trying to find a way to bring a very Christian perspective into a complete utter FANTASY! If anyone has any idea, what so ever, as to how you combine elves, magic, good vs evil, and Christ, I would appreciate it!
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Anyhow&#8230; back to the topic. Some people&#8217;s way to be authentic is to be very vauge(I don&#8217;t know how to spell that, I hope you can figure out what I ment) because the internet isn&#8217;t totally safe. I know people (me included) who have blogs where the most personal thing they say is what book they just read.
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P.S. This may sound false and that I&#8217;m just trying to be noticed but I love this blog. It&#8217;s the best I know. And believe me when I&#8217;m saying that I&#8217;m NOT lying!&#160; &lt;img src=&quot;http://www.shaungroves.com/images/smileys/bigsurprise.gif&quot; width=&quot;19&quot; height=&quot;19&quot; alt=&quot;big surprise&quot; style=&quot;border:0;&quot; /&gt;&#160; &lt;img src=&quot;http://www.shaungroves.com/images/smileys/cheese.gif&quot; width=&quot;19&quot; height=&quot;19&quot; alt=&quot;cheese&quot; style=&quot;border:0;&quot; /&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know&#8230; a lot of people would disagree with words being JUST words. Yes, the letters only add up to simple things but as a whole they have&#8230;umm&#8230; depth. If you are a pessimist (please ignore my undefendable spelling/grammer) and it helps you to feel a little better with venting your anger on a blog, by all means go ahead! Well, that&#8217;s my personal opionion.
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I have a blog but I can&#8217;t say it has a purpose other than to ramble on and get opionions for stories. And yeah, I mean, I still care if people look at it. Why? Mainly because I&#8217;m trying to find a way to bring a very Christian perspective into a complete utter FANTASY! If anyone has any idea, what so ever, as to how you combine elves, magic, good vs evil, and Christ, I would appreciate it!
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Anyhow&#8230; back to the topic. Some people&#8217;s way to be authentic is to be very vauge(I don&#8217;t know how to spell that, I hope you can figure out what I ment) because the internet isn&#8217;t totally safe. I know people (me included) who have blogs where the most personal thing they say is what book they just read.
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P.S. This may sound false and that I&#8217;m just trying to be noticed but I love this blog. It&#8217;s the best I know. And believe me when I&#8217;m saying that I&#8217;m NOT lying!&nbsp; <img src="http://www.shaungroves.com/images/smileys/bigsurprise.gif" width="19" height="19" alt="big surprise" style="border:0;" />&nbsp; <img src="http://www.shaungroves.com/images/smileys/cheese.gif" width="19" height="19" alt="cheese" style="border:0;" /></p>
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		<title>By: andira</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7269</link>
		<dc:creator>andira</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 13:56:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Shaun, I like the way you put all of that.&#160; Well said!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shaun, I like the way you put all of that.&nbsp; Well said!</p>
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		<title>By: Cali Amy</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7268</link>
		<dc:creator>Cali Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 20:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I was thinking about this later for some reason, and I think maybe people comment on posts when someone is down or depressed as being authentic because because so often we try to portray a &#8220;everything is great&#8221; in the world mentality.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was thinking about this later for some reason, and I think maybe people comment on posts when someone is down or depressed as being authentic because because so often we try to portray a &#8220;everything is great&#8221; in the world mentality.</p>
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		<title>By: Los</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7267</link>
		<dc:creator>Los</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 12:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Yea.&#160; I think blogs will never allow you to see the true side of  the writer as long as there is a reader.&#160; The reader chooses what tone, attitude, and point the author is making.&#160;
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Like what has happened here.&#160;
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Knowing Shaun, I can read this and see Shaun saying it.&#160; Therefor no amount of &#8220;swiping&#8221; was seen.&#160; But for those who do not know the person, cannot hear their voice in their head, a choice has to be made as to tone.&#160; And half the time it is wrong.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yea.&nbsp; I think blogs will never allow you to see the true side of  the writer as long as there is a reader.&nbsp; The reader chooses what tone, attitude, and point the author is making.&nbsp;<br />
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Like what has happened here.&nbsp;<br />
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Knowing Shaun, I can read this and see Shaun saying it.&nbsp; Therefor no amount of &#8220;swiping&#8221; was seen.&nbsp; But for those who do not know the person, cannot hear their voice in their head, a choice has to be made as to tone.&nbsp; And half the time it is wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: boomama</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7266</link>
		<dc:creator>boomama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 22:52:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Aw. Thanks for that, Shaw-awn. Right back atcha.
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I wrestle with all of this stuff a lot, especially b/c I think that sometimes people get some false perception of who I am because I write a fairly upbeat blog. But are there parts of my life that are decidedly un-fun? Absolutely. Are there areas of my life where I&#8217;m unhappy? Absolutely. And I definitely talk about those things, work through those things - I just opt not to talk and work through those things with the internet.
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Perhaps I&#8217;ll follow your lead and write a Very Authentic Post about all of this stuff sometime soon.
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Also: feel free to dispel Linda Sue&#8217;s &#8220;delicate flower&#8221; perception. Really. It won&#8217;t hurt my feelings one bit.&#160; &lt;img src=&quot;http://www.shaungroves.com/images/smileys/grin.gif&quot; width=&quot;19&quot; height=&quot;19&quot; alt=&quot;grin&quot; style=&quot;border:0;&quot; /&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aw. Thanks for that, Shaw-awn. Right back atcha.
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I wrestle with all of this stuff a lot, especially b/c I think that sometimes people get some false perception of who I am because I write a fairly upbeat blog. But are there parts of my life that are decidedly un-fun? Absolutely. Are there areas of my life where I&#8217;m unhappy? Absolutely. And I definitely talk about those things, work through those things &#8211; I just opt not to talk and work through those things with the internet.
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Perhaps I&#8217;ll follow your lead and write a Very Authentic Post about all of this stuff sometime soon.
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Also: feel free to dispel Linda Sue&#8217;s &#8220;delicate flower&#8221; perception. Really. It won&#8217;t hurt my feelings one bit.&nbsp; <img src="http://www.shaungroves.com/images/smileys/grin.gif" width="19" height="19" alt="grin" style="border:0;" /></p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Chia</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7265</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah Chia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 20:03:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Cool, Shaun.
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I&#8217;m happy to see someone with a big voice writing about this.&#160; When I write this kind of thing, my husband and mom are the only ones that read it.
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I&#8217;m hoping your post can expand the definition of &#8220;authentic&#8221; for some people.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cool, Shaun.
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I&#8217;m happy to see someone with a big voice writing about this.&nbsp; When I write this kind of thing, my husband and mom are the only ones that read it.
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I&#8217;m hoping your post can expand the definition of &#8220;authentic&#8221; for some people.</p>
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		<title>By: Shaun Groves</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7264</link>
		<dc:creator>Shaun Groves</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 19:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Not offended at all, Randy.&#160; Thanks for the opportunity to clarify.&#160; I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re not the only one&#8230;
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Yes, John, that&#8217;s the point.&#160; Thanks for asking.&#160; No, no swipe at those bloggers.*  Yes, a swipe was intended to those commenters or fans who label them authentic based solely on their posting something like what I described.
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I&#8217;ve been called authentic for arguably lame reasons (because I said I was depressed?&#160; Why not when I said I was ecstatic?)  Not my fault when it happens?&#160; It&#8217;s the labeler&#8217;s fault.
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*[Edit: After posting this comment I realized that statement&#8217;s not exactly true.&#160; I was taking a &#8220;swipe&#8221; at the practice of being crass and/or sharing way too much personal info.&#160; That&#8217;s not healthy for reader or blogger, IMO.&#160; Folks surely don&#8217;t always do this to be authentic but when/if they do it&#8217;s off-base.&#160; And I was taking a &#8220;swipe&#8221; at the practice of stirring the pot for authenticity&#8217;s sake as well.&#160; So, yea, I lied.&#160; Sorry.&#160; I didn&#8217;t really ponder the question too long before answering. I WAS taking a swipe at those two practices. But at no person in particular.)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not offended at all, Randy.&nbsp; Thanks for the opportunity to clarify.&nbsp; I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re not the only one&#8230;
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Yes, John, that&#8217;s the point.&nbsp; Thanks for asking.&nbsp; No, no swipe at those bloggers.*  Yes, a swipe was intended to those commenters or fans who label them authentic based solely on their posting something like what I described.
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I&#8217;ve been called authentic for arguably lame reasons (because I said I was depressed?&nbsp; Why not when I said I was ecstatic?)  Not my fault when it happens?&nbsp; It&#8217;s the labeler&#8217;s fault.
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*[Edit: After posting this comment I realized that statement&#8217;s not exactly true.&nbsp; I was taking a &#8220;swipe&#8221; at the practice of being crass and/or sharing way too much personal info.&nbsp; That&#8217;s not healthy for reader or blogger, IMO.&nbsp; Folks surely don&#8217;t always do this to be authentic but when/if they do it&#8217;s off-base.&nbsp; And I was taking a &#8220;swipe&#8221; at the practice of stirring the pot for authenticity&#8217;s sake as well.&nbsp; So, yea, I lied.&nbsp; Sorry.&nbsp; I didn&#8217;t really ponder the question too long before answering. I WAS taking a swipe at those two practices. But at no person in particular.)</p>
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		<title>By: Randy</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7263</link>
		<dc:creator>Randy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 18:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;I am sorry if I offended you.&#160; I was trying not to add words so that is why I said please correct me if I am wrong.
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Thanks for correcting me.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am sorry if I offended you.&nbsp; I was trying not to add words so that is why I said please correct me if I am wrong.
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Thanks for correcting me.</p>
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		<title>By: john in colorado</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7262</link>
		<dc:creator>john in colorado</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 18:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;i think i&#8217;ve got it.&#160; you (shaun) think people should write however they want to write and express who they are in whatever way they want to express it.&#160; and...let&#8217;s don&#8217;t slap an &#8220;inauthentic&#8221; label on someone because they don&#8217;t think the same way you (generic) do.
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pretty simple points if i&#8217;ve got it straight now.
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are you sure you weren&#8217;t taking just a little swipe at the first group you described?&#160; your use of language makes me feel that way.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think i&#8217;ve got it.&nbsp; you (shaun) think people should write however they want to write and express who they are in whatever way they want to express it.&nbsp; and&#8230;let&#8217;s don&#8217;t slap an &#8220;inauthentic&#8221; label on someone because they don&#8217;t think the same way you (generic) do.
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pretty simple points if i&#8217;ve got it straight now.
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are you sure you weren&#8217;t taking just a little swipe at the first group you described?&nbsp; your use of language makes me feel that way.</p>
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		<title>By: Linda Sue</title>
		<link>http://shaungroves.com/2008/03/semantic-stretch-authentic/#comment-7261</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 18:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;In talking about Shaun&#8217;s tone - I&#8217;m no musician so I believe I might be tone deaf - didn&#8217;t pick up any of that stuff previously mentioned. To paraphrase Rodney King - &#8220;can&#8217;t we all just believe we are authentic people&#8221; Compassion Dave and Cali Amy - there is a post &lt;a href=&quot;http://stufffchristianslike.blogspot.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Stuff Christians Like&lt;/a&gt; number 78 the Christian f word that is a hoot - I am guilty of using fine instead of words describing actual feelings or situations.&#160;
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Shaun - thanks for affirming that Sophie is truly the BooMama - rare and delicate flower of southern womanhood - oh yeah!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In talking about Shaun&#8217;s tone &#8211; I&#8217;m no musician so I believe I might be tone deaf &#8211; didn&#8217;t pick up any of that stuff previously mentioned. To paraphrase Rodney King &#8211; &#8220;can&#8217;t we all just believe we are authentic people&#8221; Compassion Dave and Cali Amy &#8211; there is a post <a href="http://stufffchristianslike.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Stuff Christians Like</a> number 78 the Christian f word that is a hoot &#8211; I am guilty of using fine instead of words describing actual feelings or situations.&nbsp;<br />
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Shaun &#8211; thanks for affirming that Sophie is truly the BooMama &#8211; rare and delicate flower of southern womanhood &#8211; oh yeah!</p>
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